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5 Sex Secrets Every Woman must Know | Sex Secrets About Men

Here are five sex secrets that may help you understand and get even closer to your guy…

Men are full of surprises and bedroom behaviour is no exception. While it’s impossible to explain all male behaviours, here are five sex secrets that may help you understand and get even closer to your guy.

He nurses the fear that he’ll let you down

Men feel tremendous pressure to perform sexually. While women aren’t waiting for marriage to have sex, and that means they are far more relaxed in the bedroom. Sexually satisfied role models, like Madonna and the ‘Sex and the City’ sirens, encourage urban women to be open about their sexual desires and complaints. These liberated women to cause some trouble for their male partners. Suddenly, the pressure to perform is on, and he can’t help but feel like he has to please you. Even though you may not be so bothered about his performance and you might forgive him for a few poor performances, he has a hard time forgiving himself. It’s really tough on him.

Warning:

If your man has a recurring problem of performance, he may start to blame you to protect his ego. Be prepared to handle this situation.

What you can do:

Don’t take it personally or, worse, insult him. And never laugh! Just pretend that it is no great deal for you.

Men need validation to get their groove on

Sex is a source of power from ages, and it gives proof that one is masculine. To a man, having sex means that he can move a woman, that he’s energetic, a provider and a lover. Basically, your guy wants to be a superhero, and he certainly wants you to see him in that light. When he satisfies you sexually, he feels like superman. If you’re enjoying yourself, let him know that. He’ll love you for your compliments.

Warning:

No encouragement means no fun. Whether you are enjoying yourself or not, just be encouraging.

What you can do:

A good rule of thumb: Don’t fake it but don’t fight it. Just look happy and satisfied and that would make your man feel super.

Men don’t like waiting too long:

Women should never hold out to have sex simply because of the so called rules of dating. He is more likely to commit if there is a sexual component to the relationship, and it is important for him to know that you find him sexually desirable.

Warning:

If your guy is offended when you initiate sex, get rid of him.

What you can do:

We’re all sensual beings; we might as well be who we are. So don’t be afraid to make a move.

Men too are conscious about their bodies

Let’s face it: Men may not worry about weight nearly as much as women do, but they do have their own image issues.

Warning:

Most men are quite concerned about their general physical condition, height and baldness. In other words, they are hoping for mood lighting in the bedroom just as much as women are.

What you can do:

Help your man by telling him that you find him attractive and showing him affection.

Most men will not forgive a cheating girlfriend

Men who have been betrayed, especially in the bedroom, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women in the same situation.

Warning:

Men want loyalty at all cost.

What you can do:

Show your loyalty not only by remaining faithful when in a committed relationship, but also by supporting your man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary. This allegiance will make your man more secure and will give him the motivation to let loose in the bedroom with you. Men want commitment just as much as women do; they just want it packaged differently.

HOW TO SATISFY MY MAN?

I have written an article called VENIS – very erotic non – insertive sex. I will repost it

VENIS: An Alternative Approach to Sexual Pleasure- Without intercourse
Sexual intercourse — with the proper partner and proper circumstances —- can be a wonderful experience. But it can be an intimidating one too for various reasons and fears: moral issues, age factors, pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, performance anxiety and tons of other concerns, especially for teenagers. My concept of VENIS can help with these anxieties. (VENIS stands for Very Erotic Non-Insertive Sex.)
VENIS was originally conceived as an alternative to intercourse for sexually active young teenagers and as an option for the HIV population. As the name implies, the sexual contact is without actual intercourse or exchange of body fluids – no insertion of the penis into the vagina or anus. VENIS moves beyond the goal-oriented ideas of conventional sex (the so-called home run in the oft-used baseball analogy) toward eroticism. VENIS activities offer an exciting menu of possibilities that can be as “active” or as “laid back” as you desire. Because there is more verbal and body communication between couples, the VENIS techniques can improve your sexual satisfaction and communication skills so important in maintaining a healthy relationship. The goal of VENIS is to broaden perceptions of sexuality beyond intercourse to consider VENIS as an exciting option.
VENIS also seeks to encourage the creation of new sexual norms, which would broaden ideas of sexuality beyond intercourse to include a range or erotic possibilities. We want to offer them alternatives that are not only safer in terms of preventing sexually transmitted diseases and HIV infection, but which also affirm their sexuality and enhance opportunities for sexual communication with partners.
Not only for young teenagers, VENIS also can be an option for:
· Couples: Establishing a VENIS night or week wherein VENIS is the primary sexual activity can be an exciting alternative to intercourse. Incorporating VENIS activities to the repertoire of sexual contact.
· Erectile dysfunction men: Those struggling with ED can experience the erotic and stimulating effects of VENIS without worrying about penetration.
· Early ejaculators: Those struggling with early ejaculation problems can experience VENIS without “performance anxiety” and may be able to use VENIS techniques to build up stamina to help in overcoming the problem (i. e. incorporating squeeze technique in VENIS activities).
· Older adults: Those who are older and prefer less “exertive” activity in their sexual activities. VENIS activities can be as hectic or as calm as you desire.
· HIV positive/STD infected adults: One original goal of VENIS was to provide a safe sex option for those within the HIV population. VENIS provides an erotic alternative to intercourse that does not involve the exchange of bodily fluids.
· Those suffering with female sexual dysfunction: Engaging in VENIS activities can take the pressure off when intercourse is difficult due to vaginal dryness, pain, or low libido. The female partner can take the lead and pace the encounter to her level of comfort. Many of the VENIS activities focus on gentleness, softness, and light touching, which promotes a more romantic atmosphere.
VENIS is a controversial idea because it does not subscribe to the moralistic and conquest codes of sexuality. Our society, having moved beyond Victorian standards of behaviour, still is long-standing societal values of sexuality. We still see “right” and “wrong” when it comes to sex. “Right” supports productive, safe and divinely accepted sexual activity between a married couple. Everything else is “wrong” to varying degrees: homosexuality, unmarried sex, fantasy, pornography, etc. Sexual activity like VENIS that does not include the “missionary position” or heterosexual intercourse may be seen as kinky, lustful or even sinful because it is not “normal.”
We are also influenced by the idea of the conquest and its gender-specific roles. Generally, for the man, the role is the initiator and/or aggressor; with an ultimate goal in mind. If you don’t “hit a home run” during sexual activity, you lose. If you’re a good girl, you’re submissive and you control who gets “on base.” You don’t even think about what kind of sex you want or how to get it. VENIS looks to both partners for variety and creativity. Foreplay becomes the “home run” instead of the stepping-stone to intercourse.
VENIS techniques and activities are not only fun but also creative. Allow yourself to let go of the conventional ideas of what and how sexuality is expressed. The key is to let your mind and body move toward pleasures that are not goal-oriented. This may involve a whole range of activities that may or may not lead to orgasm including:
§ Erotic wrestling with maximum body and genital contact,
§ Massaging with oils or lotions,
§ Manual stimulation,
§ Erotic dancing or striptease,
§ Body kissing
(Note: there are other activities listed below.)
Erotic Wrestling: A VENIS activity Primer
Erotic wrestling is a VENIS activity that can provide maximum erotic pleasure for both partners with only a few props: oil, a soft mat or towel and a private, romantic setting. Shopping and planning ahead of time can add to the excitement and anticipation. Massage oils are available at drug stores and specialty shops like The Body Shop, Bath and Body Works or Crabtree and Evelyn. Flavoured oils can be found at erotic shops or online. There are many different scents and flavours, so you can choose what appeals to both of you.
Next, you’ll have to set aside the time to play. This isn’t a quick activity you can do over the lunch hour. Erotic wrestling can also be a bit messy because your bodies will be slick with oil. You may want to wrestle in an area with a tiled floor that will clean up easily.
Round One – the Lathering
Okay, the oils are bought and you’re all set to begin. If you haven’t already done so, you can undress each other, encouraging with compliments and kisses. This can help set the mood and add to the excitement. Once nude, the first step is applying the massage oil. You’ll have to decide who will be lathered up first. Your partner can sit or lie down. Often, the latherer will sit with legs apart and the latheree can sit or lie between the partner’s legs.
Starting with the neck, slowly massage the oil into the partner’s skin by rubbing in slow, circular motions. Then move down the arms and rub into fingertips and palms. Continue down the sides of the torso, around the stomach and over the chest. Oil the partner’s back, then switch positions so the legs, feet and toes may be oiled. You should oil the genitals also, but don’t stimulate too long because there is more fun to come! Once one partner is sufficiently lathered, it’s the other partner’s turn.
Round Two – Wrestling for the Big “O” Title
You can start wrestling in any position, whether a classic starting move with one partner draped over the other or both of you kneeling one behind the other. The “match” begins when one partner tries to pin the other’s shoulders to the floor for at least three seconds. Some couples add rules to the game like a mandatory three-second kiss or that the loser of the match has to make breakfast in bed. In any case, the competition is good-natured and can produce lots of laughter as well as body contact. When your bodies are rubbing together, slipping and sliding, in an attempt to pin each other, it may only take a certain amount of body against genital rubbing for orgasm to occur.
Round Three – The Loser is a Winner, Too
You can wrestle for as many rounds as you wish, postponing orgasm until the very last moment. The loser can become the winner by having the dominant partner give the pinned partner an orgasm by rubbing their body against the “loser’s” genitals. Be careful not to initiate genital-to-genital contact because all that oil can easily cause a slip into penetration (see VENIS rules). Of course, once the winner gives the loser an orgasm then the winner gets his or her reward, too!
The Final Count
Erotic wrestling is satisfying both psychologically and physically. You’ll have the opportunity to bond together as you shop for erotic massage oils and plan the setting of the romantic adventure. You’ll have to communicate about the logistics; you’ll share the intimacy of choosing erotic items together and even learn what appeals to each other. You’ll benefit from the closeness that massaging the oils and wrestling will provide. In addition, psychological closeness and satisfaction between you and your partner is increased through the trust required during wrestling.
This activity is simply one of many that explores the fun and eroticism of VENIS. We hope you’ll decide to explore the idea behind VENIS and incorporate it into your sexual repertoire. Remember, you are in control of what you want to do. Let yourself experiment, even if something initially makes you uncomfortable. Discuss your options with your partner and decide together what you’d like to try. Most of all – have FUN!!!!
VENIS activity suggestions:
This list is just a beginning to spark the imagination. Creativity and communication are the keys to erotic non-penetrating sex. Remember – all activities must avoid the exchange of bodily fluids in order to be considered non-penetrative.
1. Watching pornography together
2. Fantasizing and sharing
3. Hugging
4. Hair brushing/playing
5. Tickling – use feathers, fingers
6. Erotic dancing – striptease, with your partner
7. Massaging with oil, foods, water, ice, fur, butter
8. Couple bathing with oils, bubble bath
9. Body rubbing with clothes on – all over, non-insertive genital rubbing
10. Body rubbing with clothes off
11. “Intercourse” between thighs, breasts, buttocks and armpits
12. Dry kissing or wet kissing or body kissing
13. Masturbation with partner watching and coinciding masturbation
14. Mutual masturbation (avoid fluid exchange).
15. Use of mechanized “toys,” – vibrators, dildos, ben-wa balls
16. Light S&M – avoid creating open wounds, spanking, whipping
17. Light bondage – tying up with rope, handcuffs, scarves, belts
VENIS props
1. Hand and body lotion
2. Bath oils/bubbles
3. Scented oils
4. Powder
5. Silk scarves
6. Erotic literature/poetry
7. Erotic videos
8. Candles
9. Music
10. Sensuous foods (see list below)
11. Towels
12. Sponges
13. Loofahs
14. Shampoos
15. Beads
16. Belts
17. Handcuffs
18. Whips
19. Riding crops
20. Ropes
21. Sexy lingerie/underwear
22. Costumes
23. Dildos/vibrators
Favorite Sensuous Foods
1. Honey
2. Whipped cream
3. Hot fudge/caramel
4. Jam/jellies/fruit spreads
5. Cherries
6. Grapes
7. Bananas
8. Ice
9. Ice cream
10. Peanut butter
11. Marshmallows
12. Café au lait (iced or hot)
13. Wine/champagne (in moderation)
Dr Elna McIntosh


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11 Signs You Sexually Satisfy Your Partner

If you and your partner were stranded on a desert island, how much time would you spend doing it? If you answered 24/7 that’s one of the signs you sexually satisfy your partner, and your partner satisfies you. But in real life, how can you tell if you’re good in bed?

You might think that wanting to know if you sexually satisfy your partner makes you needy. But that’s far from the truth. It’s fine for you to want validation, sexual or otherwise. PsychCentral reported that the desire for validation was one of the strongest motivators of human behavior. Given that some psychologists agree that validation has positive effects on how you live your life (in and out of bed), there’s no reason to get down on yourself for wanting to know if you sexually please your partner.

But just make sure you check your motivations for needing sexual approval from your partner. When wondering if you sexually satisfy your SO, are you wondering because you want a pat on the back for a job well done or are you afraid that your partner might stray if you’re not good in bed? Although many partners do cheat because the sex in their current relationship isn’t satisfying, just as many people cheat because they lack emotional connection from their partner, according to Psychology Today. In other words, your sex life doesn’t define the sum total of your relationship. And that old adage about communication being key in a healthy partnership holds true here as well. There’s no harm in asking your partner about your sexual performance or looking out for the following signs that you sexually satisfy your partner.

1

You’re Perceptive In Life

If you think you’re sexually satisfying your partner, chances are you actually are. Women’s Health noted a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that you should trust your gut when it comes to your sexual skills. Being perceptive is a sign that you know how to read all kinds of situations, including how your mate thinks you perform.

2

You Spend Time Cuddling After Sex With Your Partner

3

You’re Not Easily Threatened

According to Thought Catalog, if your sexuality isn’t easily threatened, you know you’ve got skills in the sack. In a world where sex is available with the swipe of finger, if you play it cool and act like you’re not sexually vulnerable, it’s a sign that you’re the bomb dot com between the sheets and your partner is enjoying your skills.

4

Your Partner Is Always Learning New Tricks

If your partner is constantly expanding his repertoire of sexual skills, that’s a sign they want to satisfy you because you’re satisfying them, according to another article in Women’s Health. This is especially true for men because, as the article noted, men are naturally competitive by nature, and if he’s going for gold, it’s because he thinks you’re platinum.

5

You Have Spontaneous Sex

6

You Don’t Brag About Being Good In Bed

The golden rule of sex is that people who brag about how good they are usually are overcompensating, according to the same article in Thought Catalog. So, conversely, if you don’t find yourself bragging about your sexual skills, that’s a sign that you know you’re satisfying your partner.

7

Your Partner Likes To Get Up Close And Personal

Sex coach J. Dallas told Bustle that a sign that your partner is sexually satisfied by you is if he or she likes to examine your lady parts. Curiosity, she said, is not only a sign that your partner is into you, but that he or she is creative in bed. Lucky you.

8

Your Partner Gives You Oral, A Lot

Building off the previous point, Dallas added that if a partner gives you oral on the regular, take that as a sign that he or she is super invested in your sexual relationship, and getting satisfied. Why? As Dallas pointed out, no one likes to put something foreign in his or her mouth, so if oral is going on all the time, chances are you guys have an intimate relationship that gets you both off.

9

Your Partner Gets Romantic

The same article in Men’s Fitness reported that men want to please women to let them know that they’re happy with your bedroom rapport. So, if you find rose petals at the foot of the bed, a common sexual fantasy, according to the article, pat yourself on the back. And then do what you do so well.

10

Your Partner Flirts With You After Sex

Sure, a guy is likely to say many things to get a woman into bed. But if he’s super flirty post coitus, noted Women’s Health, take that as a sign that he’s been sexually satisfied by your skills.

11

You’re An Active Listener

Thought Catalog noted that being an active listener is a sign that you’re sexual napalm. Why? Well, think about it. Being an active listener requires commitment, interest, empathy, and generosity. And, according to Psych Central, active listening builds trust.

You might not always recognize that the traits you have in life translate to how effectively you perform in bed. But they do, so have a look at yourself and not just your partner to gauge your sexual prowess.

Is It O.K. to Find Sexual Satisfaction Outside Your Marriage?

Which of these options is both ethical and likely to lead to my happiness, or is there some magical alternate option I have overlooked? I am nearing the end of my rope. Name Withheld

If the choice really is among betraying your children, betraying your husband and betraying yourself, I’d be inclined to say that the good of your children has the greatest moral weight. We live in a world, I realize, that rates and ranks sexual gratification with Yelp-like avidity. (It’s all in that classic New York Post headline that trails our Republican presidential candidate like a tin can tied to a bumper: BEST SEX I’VE EVER HAD.) Yet there are bigger strikes against a claim to a well-­lived life than sexual disappointment. One is letting down the children you’ve brought into being and helped raise. Another is having an emotionally empty relationship that regularly degenerates into incivility or worse.

Still, I wonder if you’ve described your options correctly. Your letter doesn’t convey to me a coherent sense of your situation. You say you have a generally good relationship with your husband; yet you also say that you can’t communicate with him about your relationship, and you suspect that he doesn’t have your best interests at heart. That suggests a toxic marital dynamic, fueled by anger and resentment. Are your children entirely insulated from it? And are these home-front troubles really going to be improved, rather than compounded, if you have an extramarital affair to keep from your husband?

I also wonder what you really want from your former lover. Just a sexual adventure? Or a satisfying relationship, of which the sex would be only a part? And is this likely to make up for the fact that your relationship with your husband is deeply unsatisfying, again in ways that go far beyond sex?

You suggest that you’re reluctant to try to repair the emotional damage you describe, perhaps through counseling, because you don’t trust your husband and you think he’d be resistant. But wouldn’t it be better to find out how he would respond, rather than speculating? Suppose he knew what I know now. Are you sure he wouldn’t want to work to make things better? If that conversation really does go badly, however, you’ll know more clearly where you stand. And so, by the way, will he.

Our daughter is married to a wonderful provider who is a caring and compassionate father. In the past, he was an occasional smoker, but he had quit by the time they married several years ago. He is a responsible person running his own sole-­proprietor business. He has health insurance for the family and life and disability insurance for himself. On a recent visit, I smelled the distinct odor of tobacco smoke on him when he exited his car. I did not confront him or my daughter, but I am concerned that he has placed the whole family at risk in the event that he develops a tobacco-­related illness after having become insured at nonsmoker rates. What do you think is the appropriate course of action? Name Withheld

The questions about smoking on life insurance policies have to be truthfully answered when you apply. If the company can prove you lied, they can deny the claim or, more likely, pay out only the amount the beneficiaries would have received if the premiums were counted toward a smoker’s policy. But you’re not in violation of a regular policy — and the same goes for health and disability insurance — if you take up smoking later. (You are, of course, jeopardizing your health, which poses a more direct harm to your family.)

If it came out that your son-in-law deceived his insurance company, you might raise the issue with your daughter and express your concern. The chances of being caught, if he really is only an occasional smoker, are not high. But those who lie to underwriters impose a penalty on those who don’t.

How to Make Any Man Better in Bed

The flip side of this coin can be just as troubling. Anytime I hear about Sting’s tantric stamina, I think, Poor Trudie Styler! Frankly, I’m surprised she doesn’t walk like John Wayne. Allana, 25, was dating someone who took forever to finish. “I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, considering most guys think of stamina as a good thing, so I just told him how wonderful it would be if we could finish together. Then I coached him: Just as I was about to come I’d whisper, Can you finish with me, baby?’ Guess what? My narration was apparently exciting enough for him that more than half of the time, our trains pulled into the station at the same time!” All aboard!

…the bad kisser

Many of the women I interviewed saw this flaw as a complete deal breaker. They believe it’s not something you can teach or get past. Then I used this scenario: If you’re dating Leo DiCaprio and he starts slobbering all over your face, you’re going to say forget it? Take your movie-star ass outta my sight? I don’t think so. I think you’d work with him—and you should. Eleanor, 39, gets that: “I was recently dating a guy who could not kiss. I love to kiss, so it was a huge turnoff.” The first few dates she avoided any lip action, but as they started to spend more time together, she couldn’t ignore it. “I began to give him what I call secret lessons,'” she says. “I would kiss him a certain way and then whisper in his ear in a really sexy and sensual tone, Kiss me like this.’ It was sort of like follow-the-leader. And it worked! He began to automatically do it exactly the way I like.”

My friend Janet, 27, said she dated a guy who kissed “very drooly, like a teething baby.” (I’m dry-heaving now.) The way she dealt with it wasn’t so secret: Very obviously, in the midst of a make-out session, she got a towel and wiped her mouth. “He said, Too wet?’ and I said, Yes.’ It worked. If it hadn’t, I was going to come back with a mop.”

…the too-dirty talker

Back in my dating-a-million-guys period—postcollege, pre-having to get up in the morning—I was seeing a guy who did the dirty-talk thing, and I loathed it. But it wasn’t his potty mouth that bothered me, it was the things he asked me to say. Once he wanted me to tell him to you-know-what me and I said, “Are you nuts? I’d never say that!” If anything I’d write the scene like this—it’s 1945 and you’ve just returned from Versailles…. I’m wearing a satin nightgown, white. No, dusty rose. No, yellow. Wait. I’m wearing a WAC uniform à la The Andrews Sisters, my hair is like Veronica Lake’s…. By then the guy would either have drifted off to sleep or gone out for a hooker. My friend Alice, 31, had a slightly more useful method with a guy she dated a few years back: “He loved to say dirty stuff while we were making out and he would ask all kinds of ridiculous questions and expect answers. ” Her replay of one of their typical conversations:

Him: You know when we were on the ferry last week?

Her: Yeah.

Him: You wanted to f**k me in the bathroom, right?

Her: Um, gross!

Alice would try to play along, but her heart just wasn’t in it. “I talked with my girlfriends endlessly about how to bring it up to him, but I really didn’t want to ruin his fun. Finally one night after a lot to drink I blurted out, Shut up! I don’t want to talk anymore!’ I know it wasn’t the most sensitive way to handle it, but it worked. And it improved our sex life incredibly.” Actually, it improved their sex life enough for Alice to realize that losing the dirty talk didn’t fix the relationship. They broke up but remained friends. She said he now asks his girlfriends if they like dirty talk before imposing it on them. A+, Alice!

…the orally challenged guy

When I was 11, my mom’s sister was getting divorced, and they wanted to see a movie and brought me along. The movie was Coming Home, the emotional story of a Vietnam vet (a young Jon Voight) who falls in love with the wife (a young Jane Fonda) of an officer at war. Voight is paralyzed from the waist down, and after a lot of plot, the two of them end up in bed. All you see is the top of his head going up and down under the covers and she’s saying things like “Softly, slowly.” Totally puzzled, I wondered, What is he eating? When I saw the movie again as an adult, I told my mother she was lucky that child welfare didn’t cart her away. But I also thought, Jeez, Jane’s giving him some pretty serious instructions—good for her. If only the rest of us were so bold!

Not Satisfied in Bed? How To Talk to Your Guy About Sex

Even a strong and assertive woman can find herself inexplicably quiet in the bedroom. Why is it so hard to tell him that he’s just not hitting the spot? According to psychologist Kristen Carpenter, PhD, Director of Women’s Behavioral Health at Ohio State’s Wexner Medical Center, we don’t speak up primarily because women aren’t often taught how to voice their feelings about sex.

“It’s an incredibly sensitive topic, and women are afraid of hurting their partner’s feelings or insulting them,” Carpenter explains. “A suggestion often feels like a criticism—and we’re not socialized to talk about sex in that way. In Sex Ed, there was never a conversation about pleasure or how to obtain it, or what happens if something goes wrong—aside from getting pregnant or an STD.”

This type of thinking is what leads to loads of women who are unsatisfied in the sack and unable to express themselves effectively—just sort of falling into their sex lives. Doesn’t exactly sound thrilling, right?

Fortunately, a ho-hum sex life doesn’t have to be your fate. Here’s how to start the conversation about likes and dislikes, how to convey a clear message in the moment and spare feelings in the process. (Let’s talk about sex, baby.)

Outside the bedroom…

Start with a check-in.

Carpenter says discussions about sex should come up in the course of normal couple conversation—even if it’s not your usual thing. “If there’s a real problem or something you really didn’t like, talking about it outside the bedroom is best,” she says. What you don’t want to do is voice a qualm to your guy while he’s “in the afterglow,” so to speak, which is supposed to be a time of positive vibes. So sleep on it and bring it up when you’re both out of the moment. Maybe over a glass of wine at dinner the next night or while you’re on the couch, catching up on Netflix.

Be direct about what you do like.

There’s an old joke about men along this sentiment: if you tell a dude you like something, there’s a good chance he’ll do it over and over and over. So, why not be clear about what turned you on? Be direct about the positives, and don’t be shy, says Carpenter. “Talk about the positives the next day,” she insists. “Say, ‘I love that we took it slow last night.’” And if you’d rather he stop something, if it was uncomfortable or displeasing, just sandwich the negative between a couple positives (compliment sandwich, anyone?). Bottom line: most men looooove when they are personally responsible for your sexual satisfaction. A caring partner wants you to enjoy yourself. So, focus on those moments when you did—and (hint, hint) hope to again in the future!

26 Best Foreplay Tips for Sexual Pleasure

Foreplay isn’t optional. It’s not something that you can half-ass for two minutes before rushing into P-in-V or P-in-B sex. Instead, it’s something you should take your time with to get both your partner and yourself in the mood—after all, you shouldn’t be feigning excitement or mindlessly going through the motions just for your partner’s sake. Foreplay is something that should turn on everyone involved.

“Without foreplay, [sex] is equivalent to putting a frozen turkey in a 250 degree oven,” explains Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, one of the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shops. “Oh, it will defrost at some point and it will cook within the next 4 or 5 days. But why go that route when you can defrost it and then warm it up the correct way at the correct temperature?”

Honestly, the term “foreplay” is a misnomer because it implies that what comes next—the actual “play” or intercourse—is somehow better. But that’s not the case. Most people with a vulva can’t orgasm through penetration alone. They require clitoral stimulation in order to experience climax, which happens when the external clitoral glans are engaged. The most reliable ways of doing this are not through penetration, but through oral, hand, or toy sex. (That said, it’s important to note that sex is not all about orgasming—it’s about pleasure, and there’s a difference.)

Foreplay is not the “before” part; think of it as MORE-play. It’s a huge piece of this puzzle that deserves a better reputation than some optional “pre-sex” fun. In fact, penetrative sex doesn’t even need to be on the table at all for sex to be sex. Sex is everything involving genitals (or other body parts) that brings someone sexual pleasure. We need to open our minds, people! Prioritizing intercourse is so over.

Now, to get the best foreplay moreplay tips, we spoke to various sex experts. Try one, two, or all of these tips and techniques the next time you start fooling around, and watch some magic happen.

1) Ask your partner what turns them on.

When in doubt, just come right out and ask what your partner likes during sex. “Most [people] appreciate men who want to make sure they’re satisfied,” says Barbara Bartlik, M.D., a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University. “If [they] notice you’re working hard to please them, “[they’ll] be more likely to return the favor.”

Communication is essential for good sex, no matter what kind of sex you’re having. Being open and honest about your turn-ons and inviting your partner to do the same creates an erotic atmosphere that’s both sexy and trusting.

2) Sext throughout the day.

Foreplay doesn’t simply start in the bedroom. It can start from the moment you wake up. Little texts like “Can’t wait to get naked with you tonight” can get your partner excited before you even set foot in the same room. If sending nudes is something that turns you and your partner on, go ahead and swap some sexy photos with one another. Then you can text what you plan to do to their naked body. Sexting gets the fires going so early that by the time you’re actually in bed, you’ll be RARING to go.

3) Add some temperature play into the mix

Ice cubes and candles that double as massage oil are a fun and easy way to turn up the heat on your foreplay, explains Sofiya Alexandra, co-host of the podcast Private Parts Unknown.

“Hold an ice cube between your teeth and draw it down your partner’s body,” Alexandra says. “Or, if you’re more into heat, like me, you can get candles involved—one of my college boyfriends and I used to use just regular soy candles to drip wax on each other for a little BDSM fun.

That said, a massage candle is a safer way to dip your toe into wax play if it’s new to you. “Drip high at first to cool the oil down before initial contact with skin, and take your time slowly massaging it in for maximum pleasure,” Alexandra says. “You want your partner’s body to buzz like a hive of murder hornets.”

4) Take your time removing articles of clothing.

Moreplay is a marathon, not a sprint. (Though if you are pressed for time, here are the best sex position for quickies.) Instead of quickly stripping down, start by taking off their shirt. Wait a few minutes before you take off their pants, and so on. You can then focus on that newly revealed body part with kisses and licks. After taking off your partner’s pants, massage their legs. Once the top is gone, you can lick and gently suck on their nipples. (Nipple play can be enjoyable for all gender.)

5) Get wet together.

If you’ve ever attempted to have sex in the shower or in a body of water, you’ll know that it’s nearly impossible to thrust while your body is submerged in liquid.

That’s why Courtney Kocak, co-host of Private Parts Unknown, suggests using the tub as a means of foreplay. “I feel like sexy fantasies that involve candlelit bubble baths or steamy showers are ingrained in us,” Kocak says. “Enjoy stripping down with your partner before you get in—maybe set a playful tone by taking turns underdressing each other.” Just make sure to keep the water hot so you can stay in for a while and really explore the intimacy of touch.

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6) Give your partner a strip tease.

In a similar vein, go ahead and give your partner a little strip tease. (If you need inspiration, you can always check out the SNL skit with Chris Farley and Patrick Swayze auditioning to be Chip ‘n’ Dale dancers.)

If you’re a shite dancer, at least you’ll come off as endearing, but if you do in fact strip well, your partner just might want to pounce on you. (FYI, here’s how to strip-tease like a dancer in Magic Mike.) Honestly, your partner is going to be turned on by you getting naked no matter how silly you feel. Sex isn’t always serious. It can be playful and funny while still being very orgasmic.

Sexy underwear is for everyone. If you find the right fit, you can really turn your partner on. (If you’ve never tried low-rise briefs, we highly recommend them!)

More of a tighty-whitey type? Rock on, my friend. Whatever makes you feel like a true sexual icon is the right way to go. Pssst … that might even mean going commando.

8) Give an erotic massage.

If you’re going to have penetrative sex, start by giving your partner an erotic massage that both relaxes and teases them. Prior to even touching them, you’ll want to set the mood with lighting and music (we recommend soft lighting – stay the hell away from fluorescents), and then go ahead and whip out the massage oil.

From there you want to start massaging them. Start with arms, legs, back etc. Relax their muscles before moving to *sexier* areas. Once they’re really relaxed, that’s when you start massaging those naughty bits.

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9) Focus on enjoying all of this good pleasure, pal.

People get turned on by knowing their partner is having fun, too. That’s what makes sex, in all its forms, so hot. “If you act as if you’re just going through the motions to get to [intercourse], [they’re] going to notice, and it will take longer for [them] to get excited,” says Michael Perry, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Encino, California.

In other words, get into all your moreplay activities, and enjoy them while you’re doing them. If you like how your partner’s calves feel, stroke them in appreciation. If you like their butt, kiss it. “When a man is loving what he’s doing, it’s going to show through and turn [them] on, too,” says Perry.

10) Take it easy at first.

No matter your partner’s genitals, it’s important to start off slowly and gently. This is especially true if there is a clitoris involved. As wonderful as the clit is, it can be easily overstimulated if you rush right to it. “Direct stimulation of the clitoris can actually be painful,” says Cathy Winks, author of The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-spot. “It’s much better to rub the clitoral hood [where the tops of the labia meet] or to rub along the side of the clitoris than it is to go straight for the head of it.”

When playing with the clitoris during oral sex, Birch’s advice is to take the focus on and off that super-sensitive area. “The clitoris reacts best to being teased, so you want to lick it and suck on it a little, build a little tension, then back off on it a bit before going at it again,” she adds.

When it comes to penises, going right for it might not cause pain, but it will certainly cause increased pleasure if you take your time getting to oral or hand sex. Slow down, bucko. We’re all here to have a good time.

11) Expand your repertoire.

There are plenty of ways to expand your oral sex repertoire, and you should always be looking to add new moves and mix things up. For starters, try lying perpendicular to their body and stroking their clitoris with your tongue in a horizontal motion, rather than up and down. They’ll appreciate the change in stimulation, hopefully enough to return the favor.

If your partner has a penis, try moving your mouth and hand in a circular-twisting motion, instead of just going up and down. Get your tongue in on the action and run it over the head.

Oh, and don’t forget the toys if you’re considering some prostate action. Check out this guide on how to use anal toys during sex.

12) Try the figure-8 technique.

The figure-8 tongue technique is one of the most tried and true ways to get things going below the belt with vulva-owners. When you’re down below, work the super sensitive area around the clitoris in a figure-8 pattern. Arouse them with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers.

Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down. Finally, work up to figure-8s, alternating between your tongue’s smooth underside and firmer tip. Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use.

And this figure-8 technique is not just for vulvas. If your partner has a penis (and is into rimming), try running your tongue from the top of the perineum (just under the balls) down around their anus, and back up in a figure-8.

13) Explore their entire body.

Don’t just zero in on your partner’s genitals. The body is filled with erogenous zones like the neck, thighs and breasts.

“Genitals are fascinating and fun, but try to spend some time focusing on your partner’s entire body instead of going straight for her crotch,” says Cassie Fuller, cofounder of Baltimore sex-ed company Touch Of Flavor. “Try caressing, licking, or nibbling other erogenous zones, such as her neck, back, ears, belly, or wrists.”

14) Don’t overlook the rest of the vulva.

Oft overlooked as mere barriers to the vagina, the labia are packed with nerve endings and shouldn’t be ignored. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage them, working your way up and down.

Or, using all of your fingers and your palm, gently “smoosh” the labia together, almost like you’re (gently!) kneading dough. You can also explore the mons pubis, the fleshy patch where their pubic hair lives, and carefully press your palm into it for a grounded, sexy feel. This motion can help relax the pelvic floor and engage the internal clitoris indirectly.

15) If your partner has a penis, there is a lot to explore.

If your partner has a penis, don’t ignore the perineum and balls. Explore everything, lick everything, and enjoy. Don’t be shy about being vulnerable and going beyond the “usual” sexual menu, no matter how casual the relationship. “Foreplay is about enjoying the journey and unlocking new levels of pleasure along the way. Have fun by not taking yourself too seriously along the way. Vulnerability helps build intimacy with anyone, not just lovers,” says Tiana GlittersaurusRex, polyamorous educator and activist and co-founder of The Sex Work Survival Guide, a non-profit organization advocating for the rights and safety of sex workers.

For tips on how to really enjoy analingus, check out our guide to eating ass.

16) Try a vibrator.

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A vibrator buzzing around your partner’s erogenous zones can be just as stimulating, if not more, than using your hands alone. Bring one in for the assist during foreplay, touching your partner everywhere.

Run it up and down their labia, over the mons, the inner thighs, and around the clitoris. “I have such a hot sex life with my vibrator … so if you want to get me turned on *instantly*, just tell me to grab my toy and enthusiastically ask me to show you what I do with it,” Kocak says. “Then, you can take over its operation yourself.” Try one of Men’s Health‘s Best Sex Toys of the Year, The Le Wand Massager.

You can also use vibrators on balls, the tip of the penis, and on the perineum. Vibrators are for all body parts. If your partner has a prostate, you can get a vibrating prostate massager that can really take things to the next level. Check out our top prostate massagers here.

17) Try other fun sex toys.

Not all toys vibrate. There are so many to choose from, it’s kind of mind-blowing. For instance, you can try a sucking toy such as the Satisfyer or Womanizer or a rotation toy like the Zumio. Check out our guide to all the different types of vibrators and non-vibrators here. These alternatives can be fabulous for people who aren’t huge fans of vibration.

Have fun choosing which toys to use during sex by communicating and figuring out what works for both of you. And remember, toys are not gender-specific. You can even go shopping together online and choose some fun things to try together.

18) Mix in some BDSM.

BDSM can be a very fun way to explore dominance and submission in the bedroom. Before trying this play, you’ll need to be very clear about your boundaries and limits and be able to have an honest and open conversation with your partner so you both feel safe.

“If getting spanked, choked, whatever turns you on like nobody’s business then you owe it to yourself to get that conversation started ASAP,” Kocak says. “Plus, it might lead to other sexy convos about things each of you would like to try, and you can start building a mutual fantasy together.”

Check out this guide to effective communication in BDSM for more information on having these discussions. One of the easiest way to play with BDSM? Some erotic spanking.

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19) Engage all the senses.

There is a lot more to sex than orgasms; sensory play is absolutely incredible. This means tapping into touch, smell, taste, sound, and sight. Be “mindful of lighting, scents in the room, and music playing in the background,” says GlittersaurusRex. “Feed each other bite-sized food like fruit and berries with chocolate. You can eye-gaze, lick each other’s fingers or place the food on other parts of the body to nibble on.”

This might include some gear, too. “This kit from LELO is perfect for a sexy foreplay scene. It has a feather teaser, silk blindfold, and a couple’s vibrator,” says Kenneth Play, an International Educator and Creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series. “Sensory deprivation, sensation, G-spot and clitoral stimulation are such a delicious combo together. When you add a luxurious feel to this, it makes the experience decadent and indulgent, which brings you towards focusing on your senses and being in the moment.”

20) Get good at talking dirty.

Dirty talk is super hot. Here’s a guide to doing it well, including specific scripts to help you get the ball rolling.

“If you want to get [them] hot and bothered, brush your lips against [their] ear and whisper what you want to do to [them],” says Ryn Pfeuffer, sex and relationships writer and author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating. “Be slow, deliberate, and as dirty as possible, and I pinky swear promise, I’m all yours. Work in some stealth eye contact, and OH MY GAWD.”

21) Check in with your partner regularly.

Check in every so often to be sure you’re both having fun and feel safe. Everybody is different, so make sure you’re able to read how they respond to what you’re doing. It shouldn’t be hard to tell what’s working, and to then use this information to keep a good thing going.

“If [they] wince when you talk dirty, move onto your next play,” says relationship expert April Masini. “Or if [they’re] really into making out on the sofa, don’t try to move it to the bedroom.” Enthusiastic consent and full-on enjoyment are a must for everyone.

22) Pay attention to how you feel.

If you’re worried about getting off too early during intercourse, try becoming more aware of your pre-orgasmic sensations. Most men and penis-owners only recognize that last, no-turning-back, feeling that occurs just before ejaculation, says David Copeland, author of How to Succeed with Women. By then it’s too late to do anything about it. Try to become familiar with the two or three more subtle sensations that precede that one, so that you can slow down at the right time.

When it comes to your emotions, listen to them closely. Don’t forget to communicate and advocate for yourself. Remember, we’re all here to enjoy each other’s bodies and have lots of pleasure. If something is making you feel uncomfortable or strange, stop what you’re doing and take a beat. You can simply say, “Babe, I’m feeling a little strange. Can we just cuddle for a while?”

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23) Don’t forget about kissing.

“Women get their greatest erotic pleasure from frequent, passionate kissing,” says Patti Britton, Ph.D., clinical sexologist, and author of The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice. “If you get the sense that she’s starting to lose interest, kissing is always the best way to bring her back into it.”

Just remember that passionate kissing doesn’t always mean frantically swabbing your partner’s tonsils. Try to mix up your tongue play with the occasional closed-mouth kiss on their nose, eyes, and forehead.

24) Create rituals together.

Connecting intimately with a partner can become easier when you put some weight behind it. This can mean creating special, loving rituals together in a way that brings you out of a stressful state and into a sexy one. “Changing clothes, drinking some tea or a glass of wine together, or any other ritual that works for you all help you switch modes,” Play says.

Your rituals will be unique to you and won’t follow a set script. It can be helpful to sit down and connect intimately with your partner to start. Co-create a special “moreplay menu” wherein you discuss all the things that make you feel sexy. Then, take it from there.

25) Use words of encouragement.

When your partner takes on the role of initiator (and you’re into it), be sure to let them know how turned on that makes you. We all can use some words of affirmation here and there. When we know we’re going to be met with praise, we’re more likely to initiate in the future.

Tell them how you loved how they got things going and how you’d love them to do that more in the future. When we feel rejected, we get a message that it’s unsafe or wrong to initiate sex, so letting your partner know it was awesome will encourage them. It improves sexual self-esteem, which is very necessary for everyone to have an orgasm.

26) You can skip foreplay occasionally, if you’re both down.

It’s perfectly all right to occasionally skip foreplay, if you both want to jump right to intercourse. Sex is a co-created experience and you can choose your own adventure. Just be sure everyone is 100 percent here for this journey.

“When you’ve been creating a larger sexual context in your relationship, you’re basically operating in that [state of foreplay] all the time,” says psychologist and relationship therapist Tracy Thomas, Ph.D. “If you’ve been together for a while, you should know them well enough to know when it’s okay to jump straight to the main event.”

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90,000 How to satisfy a man in bed: 10 specific tricks

Every woman wants to become the one and only for her man. It’s not enough to be beautiful and well-groomed for this.You need to know how to satisfy a man in bed so that he thinks and dreams only of you.

1 Forget about shyness

If you chose a man and decided to make love to him, then stop pretending to be a virgin, forget about shyness, modesty and isolation, be sexually active, be creative and creative. Always remember that any representative of the strong half of humanity dreams of having a woman next to him who does not think about her complexes during sex.Show your partner that you enjoy his caresses, praise him, tell him how cool he is. Believe me, this will not leave him indifferent and will remain in debt to you.

2 Talk frankly about sex

How to satisfy a man in sex? Don’t be afraid to talk about sex and your desires. In an effort to satisfy your partner, do not hesitate to ask what he likes and how he wants. But do not forget to try, what you want and like yourself. Watch his reaction and your own feelings.By experimenting and focusing on your body signals, you can find poses that both of you will enjoy.

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3 Don’t forget about your hands

How to satisfy a man with your hands? Use the means at hand for this: oils, foams, lubricants are well suited. If you master the techniques of caressing, then you will significantly increase the pleasure of your loved one and you will hear many words of gratitude in your address.

To understand the difference between simple hand satisfaction and using oils, try to massage the most sensitive point on male dignity.It is called the frenum and is located between the head and the foreskin. Touch it gently, first without oil and then using it. Your man will definitely feel the difference.

4 Use erotic massage

This massage requires a certain skill and, of course, desire. It is best to do it for a reason, but as a reward for actions and results.

It is advisable to warn your man in advance about the desire to please him.All day he will be in anticipation, drawing in his imagination what will happen during the massage. If you try, put love and skill in it, you can relax your partner as much as possible and get gratitude in return.

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5 Try something new

How to satisfy a man without sex? It is better to ask him about this himself. But you can try, for example, head massage. Most representatives of the strong half of humanity admit that they are ready to purr with pleasure when they wash their hair.

6 Look after your appearance

Of course, they do not love them for their beauty. But for a man it is extremely important that next to him there is someone whom he can be proud of. After all, looking at you during sex, he will also receive aesthetic pleasure.

Take care not only of your appearance (makeup, hairstyles, beautiful clothes, slim body), but also of your personal hygiene. This is a very important point.

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7 Don’t forget about kissing

How to satisfy a man with a small penis? The answer is simple.One of the greatest pleasures that any representative of the strong half of humanity dreams of is a blow job. Therefore, more often please your man with oral sex.

If you bring this art to perfection, then your chosen one will forever forget about other girls. The thing is that oral sex creates the deepest emotional attachment for a man to a woman. If you do not learn to enjoy this, then your chosen one will probably notice it and be disappointed.

8 Do not turn off the light

Do not have sex with the lights off – a man loves with his eyes and ears. It is important for him to see your body, face, eyes. Become more sensual, learn to express pleasure, moan, make sounds and wriggle under your beloved, adjust to the rhythm of his movements. Every person needs feedback, and your partner is no exception.

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9 Make surprises

Men do not like routine and monotony, they quickly get bored of everything, and they start to look to the side.Like girls, they love surprises and also expect them from their beloved. It is not for nothing that they say that all wars, exploits and crazy deeds are committed for the sake of love and the night with that one and only.

So what is the right way to satisfy a man? Do not skimp on your imagination and come up with something special every time. It could be a change of look, a new set of underwear, a role play, or an original place to make love.

90,000 How to satisfy a man and always remain the only one for him?

Have you ever wondered why many women find it difficult to establish long-term relationships ? It is even difficult sometimes to unequivocally name the reason for the separation – both seem to be good, adequate people, and there were no obvious contradictions…. it just happened ..

If your last man left by himself and not to a monastery, but to another woman, then you urgently need to change something in yourself right now! So, we put on the agenda the question: how to satisfy a man , to become for him the only one about which he will always sincerely want to take care of?

First of all, let’s take off our rose-colored glasses and forget about everything that poets extolled in poems about love. Let’s try to look into the eyes in the most intent way.In real life, in fact, when there is a desire to find a loved one for a relationship, as in the satisfaction of many other needs, where do they go? To the bazaar, where there is a “product” and there is a “buyer”.

Remember why the last / current man chose you, although there were many other equally worthy women nearby? The acquaintance did not take place on a deserted island, where it was simply impossible to find anyone other than your candidacy, right? What is the reason for his absolutely correct decision?

How to satisfy a man: serious relationship

Everything is simple – because you are more than the other women around him at that time, met his criteria for “beautiful” and had better qualities than theirs.And only because of this, a serious relationship began.

Based on all this, he wanted to meet with you. In other words, there was a clear list of your advantages over the others (you can even write it down by digging a little in your customer’s head), and for this very reason he liked you, not your girlfriend. Do you agree with me?

Therefore, if you want to keep a man, then do not lose these qualities he needs at least, but as a maximum –

Continuously improve them!

There are a few standard win-win criteria here that I keep reminding you, as this is the foundation at all times:

  • appearance – well-groomed hair and nails, dresses, shoes with heels, makeup;
  • manners the most pleasant and charming;
  • communication – easy and interesting, delightful voice and funny laugh.

By periodically making changes in them and monitoring the reaction of a man, within a month you can develop an almost unshakable retention scheme . It is very important to “monitor the reaction”, since all people are individual and, of course, there are their own standards of beauty for a particular person.

For example, a man likes to be given a relaxing massage at night. Well, here he is, “lover of beauty.” You must certainly adapt to this, but is fundamentally important at the same time be very careful and know the edge so as not to turn into a silent servant who, as always, quickly gets bored, and the owner will go looking for a more interesting option.How to do it?

This question, by the way, we devote a lot of time in our women’s club, and from experience we can say about the most correct option, preventing a bad turn of events.

Want to become the only one for a man – become the only one for yourself first!

What does this mean? And the fact that there was no other such was not and cannot be! In any business that you do for yourself, do it exclusively! No wonder they say that the king is visible in the swamp, precisely because he knows that he is a king and behaves accordingly! So be the Queen in everything! Try to implement your uniqueness everywhere, for example:

  • When you walk into a restaurant, make sure it’s the best place.
  • Order only what you really want to eat, regardless of the price.
  • And in general, right today, indulge yourself with something that you have long wanted, but regretted time and money for it.

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Love yourself – and your significant other will automatically feel it!

And after that you can “pamper” your loved one with massages, compliments and concessions. All your works will now be very difficult to devalue, and on the contrary, a man will appreciate everything that is done for him, because he knows that you are worth a lot.He will value you as much as you value yourself, and he certainly will not want to exchange it for another, because he knows what treasure awaits him at home: a beautiful, confident woman, pleasing all his desires! And you, in turn, will bathe in his love and admiration.

Satisfy a man and bathe in love

I’m sure you understand how nice it is! For this, it turned out that long treatises about “what should not be done in any case, so that a man doesn’t leave ” turned out to be unnecessary, but it turned out that you just need to delve deeper into the mechanics of working relationships in our world.Agree, he will sparkle with completely new colors when you accept and love yourself!

Be sure to read the material in addition to the topic – how to become loved, and the question of how to satisfy a man will never confuse you, because now you know the answer for sure!

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90,000 How to satisfy a man? An article on the marketru website.ru

Every woman wants to be the most beloved, most desirable and unique for her man. The fair half will have to make great efforts to achieve their goal. “How to satisfy a man?” – every second representative of the fairer sex asks herself this question. What needs to be done so that your life partner always remains happy, loved and, of course, satisfied?

Sex is the most important aspect of living together, but not the only one.A man can be satisfied in other ways as well. This can be done with minimal losses for female pride.

Relationships

People in love try to please each other without any self-interest. And if there is a selfish motivation in your desire, then such a relationship is not familiar with true feelings. The union of young people, always and everywhere trying to make each other pleasant surprises, will be long and happy.

If a woman’s desire to satisfy her companion meets reciprocity, then such a couple will always live in harmony and love.

What to do for those women whose husbands are not romantics? Show him your own example of a relationship. Prepare a romantic dinner for his arrival. Your efforts will be rewarded.

Food

From a hungry man you will never get tenderness and affection. A banal lunch may not always come to the rescue. Diversify your diet, cook something delicious and tasty. Surprise him with your cooking skills. And then he will not sit with friends in the bar after work, but will come running faster to you.He knows for sure that at home on the stove is not pasta and scrambled eggs, but, say, a salad with squid and shrimp.

Do not reassure yourself that you are on a diet. It is unlikely that a man will agree to chew cabbage all day. He will soon get tired of your diet, and a rival may appear on the perimeter who knows how to cook delicious pies with aromatic cabbage soup.

Sex

A man who does not enjoy sex is unlikely to consider himself satisfied. Quite often, many of the fairer sex refuse intimacy under various pretexts (headache, fatigue, etc.).etc.).

Understand yourself first. If you are really very tired, take a few days off. And if the problem lies elsewhere, do not delay the conversation with your husband. Talk to him about intimacy. Explain to him what and how he should do. It is possible that some kind of erotic fantasy has arisen in your mind long ago. Try to implement it together. Take an interest in his fantasies too.

Something new is sure to bring variety to your intimate life. You can change your position, try role-playing games, various toys.Beautiful erotic lingerie can also give new sensations. Feel free to experiment.

Trust and understanding

Men really love to be admired, respected and understood. Spouses must trust each other. If a wife loves and appreciates her husband, then no storms and thunderstorms are terrible for such a relationship.

If scandals, reproaches, unjustified jealousy await a man at home, he will seek consolation on the side.

There is a closed type of men. They don’t want to share their problems and fears.This is where feminine wisdom should come to the rescue. If your husband is very angry and tired, you shouldn’t go to him with questions. Try to feed him first, let him rest and sleep. And in the morning he will definitely tell you everything.

Teach him to share his experiences. Be sure to try to understand it, support it. Talk about how you admire him because he is the best of men.

It won’t be long before you will be pleasantly surprised that your husband himself will look for a reason to talk to you.He will definitely share his thoughts or just talk about the painful one. And your wise advice will help him always stay afloat.

Hobbies

Each of us has our own interests. Someone loves fishing, hunting or football, someone is drawn to play on the computer, and someone likes to tinker with their car in the garage. Many women do not like such hobbies of the husband. And very often the ultimatum “either – or” can lead to another family scandal.

Try to find a common passion that will satisfy both parties.If your husband likes to go fishing, bring a brush and paper with you. While he is busy with his business, you can paint a landscape. Do you like to knit? Next time the football broadcast kicks off, sit next to your husband on the bed and start knitting your masterpieces.

Satisfying a man is difficult, but possible. Just do not overdo it in your aspirations, otherwise all your attempts will be taken for granted. Make him reciprocate. Be wise. And then all your efforts will not be in vain.

90,000 18 ways to make a man happy in bed

Being the author of the “Sex” column in XXL magazine and sharing with the male population of the country the views of sexologists about what women want from us, I regularly receive letters not only from readers, but also from readers. The young ladies as one insist: “Stop writing about what to do in bed for a man – write about what to do in bed with a man!”

Usually I would answer something like: “The idea is great.But it is completely out of the question. I am afraid that our readers will not like to see in their men’s magazine messages like: “Feel free to play with your partner’s penis …”

But the idea of ​​such an article still haunted me. I discussed it with competent specialists. With colleagues. With buddies at the bar. Analyzed my own experience. And I found out one very curious thing: in the depths of his soul, every man is sure that an ideal fatal woman would come out of him. First, he would love to have sex.And secondly, he would know perfectly well how to make sure that after a night spent with such a woman in bed, her partner would have one desire: to kiss her feet around the clock, howling with delight.

A passionate desire to share this important knowledge with the fair sex led me here, to the pages of a friendly female, so to speak, printed organ.

LADY DOES NOT MOVE!

Who said that anything is required of a woman in bed? Most men are sure: the main thing is for her to be there, and then he will figure out what’s what.Here the British, for example, somehow survived the entire nineteenth century under the motto “the lady does not move.” And nothing, created the world’s first demographic crisis, despite the fact that the ladies honestly did not move …

Nevertheless, time passes, the laws of morality are changing, and today the idea of ​​female virtues has changed radically. In the late nineteenth century, the female orgasm was discovered. Until then, it was taken for granted that a woman sacrifices herself to male lust for the sole purpose of having a baby.And he suffers terribly both mentally and physically during the inelegant process of acquiring offspring. After this discovery, all men craved women with an orgasm. And they still want to. Give us free rein, we would construct the female body in such a way that during the climax, the partner would start flashing with multi-colored lights and flashing “BINGO !!!” on the scoreboard. (So ​​that we can see that this time we hit it for sure and all our efforts were not in vain. But what can I say, we would not mind that at the same time the whole stadium began to chant: “What-pee-it !!!”)

However, I digress a little… So, all this I mean is that modern men clearly prefer women with temperament. With passion. Who do this to us in bed! .. And what, by the way, are they doing there?

During the preparation of the material, I interviewed 165 men of different ages, professions and social status. Everyone was asked one question: “What behavior of a woman in bed do you like the most?” And the answers showed: there are about two dozen things that men dream of. (It was decided not to consider reflections on the topic of group sex with two black women and one dildo).

Before starting to list them, I consider it my duty to make the following statement.

I am not saying that a woman SHOULD do this. She owes nothing to anyone. Simply, if one day she wants (quite by accident) to make her man pleasant (if, of course, he deserves it) and to experience something new herself, then this list will be at her service.
And don’t hit me, please …

1. WEAR BEAUTIFUL LINING

Yes, we men taste like old cocottes.This is true. We love lace, a combination of red and black, stockings with garters and ruffles on the sides. Elegant unisex underwear turns us on much less than this disgrace with roses in different places. And if the young lady is still crawling into bed in high-heeled shoes …

2. STAY ON THE LIGHT

Unfortunately, niktolopia – the ability to see in the dark, as in the light – is possessed by only one man in a million. And everyone else is terribly jealous of this one.Because men, unlike women, are much more excited about visual images than sound and tactile ones. We need to see the front of the work, you know … At the same time, we do not require at all that the room be lit like an operating room. A night light is enough. And, by the way, if this lamp shade is pink or orange, then the woman’s skin and figure will greatly benefit from this: the warm color will mask any irregularities or spots.

3. LEAVE ANYTHING TO CHEW AND DRINK NEAR BED

Every second man, immediately after sex, often experiences bouts of animal hunger.This is fine. This does not mean that he is a stupid animal. He just needs to gain strength for the second run.

4. TIGHTEN PRELIMINARY GAMES

A man’s instincts are like those of a chicken. If the chicken sees a worm crawling away from him, he rushes in pursuit. If the potential prey, on the contrary, crawls towards a small yellow bird, the chicken prefers not to get involved with the aggressor and retreats. No, of course, we, unlike the chicken, have intellect, will, and everyday experience… But the instinct of persecution has not yet been canceled. Therefore, we are especially excited when we are slightly beaten off. But only slightly.

5. ASK WHAT HE WANTS

Each of us has our own little fantasies that we rarely manage to put into practice. And it doesn’t have to be sadomasochistic games or sex with camels – no, most of us have much more modest needs. For example, someone might dream of having sex with a woman in a nurse’s gown with a stethoscope.Someone is thrown into an erotic shiver by the thought that a partner can spank him with a rope. Someone dreams of having sex in the water. But, fearing to frighten off a sensitive and timid doe snorting under our left armpit, we prefer to keep silent about our wonderful ideas in a rag. So that we are not for maniacs, it’s not even an hour, they didn’t take us.

6. MOVE

Any man, except a necrophiliac, likes it when a woman moves during sex. And the more active, the better.

7.CARSE HIS BREAST

We also love to be licked and bitten on our nipples. True, if you do it too vigorously, exciting sensations will be replaced by tickling and difficult to bear. And if you do it too long …
At least one man in the world has fallen victim to his girlfriend’s nipple addiction. Thirty-eight-year-old Englishman Robert S., after two years of marriage with a new girlfriend, has breast milk. And then the guy was treated with hormones for a long time. The mechanism of lactation – breastfeeding – is still quite mysterious.It is known that in some animals (for example, rats and cats), males can sometimes feed offspring if it remains without a mother and for a long time, persistently pulls at the nipples of the male. Therefore, experts advise not to abuse the stimulation of male nipples, allowing yourself this pleasure no more than an hour and a half a day.

8. SCREAM

And also sigh, whisper, mutter, food, scream, groan, ask for mercy and sing the anthem of Russia. For a man, his partner’s screams (except for those cases when old parents, children and a cousin from Vitebsk are sleeping behind the screen) are always pleasant.This is again from the realm of instincts – the cries of the female indicate that the penis has entered deep enough so that fertilization after ejaculation occurs with the maximum probability.

8. DEPILATE THE BIKINI AREA

In 165 men, opinions on how a woman’s pubic hair should look were divided as follows:
– completely removed —15
– depilated in the “bikini zone” – 144
– grew naturally – 6

10. DO NOT CALL THE POLICE

If he suddenly offers you anal sex.The idea of ​​such sex excites the overwhelming majority of men because: a) it is taboo, b) they are interested in experiencing new, possibly very painful sensations, and c) in men themselves, this area is much more erogenous than in women. Because we have a prostate – a very sensitive organ located close to the rectum. (For some diseases, doctors massage our prostate. And all patients have an erection, and some even ejaculate.) No wonder we think that women should like anal sex.Although, according to statistics, only one woman out of five likes him.

11. DRINK BEFORE SEX LITER

Optional “Dom Perignon”, you can do with mineral water. The fact is that when the bladder fills, stimulation of the point (located on the front wall of the vagina) during intercourse is more active, and you will get more pleasure from sex. And we really like it when a woman feels good with us. Perhaps this is the main thing that makes us happy – this is how we are brutally noble.

12. IMPROVE TECHNOLOGY

We are all big fans of oral sex. Even if a woman does it for a deuce with a plus, of which plus is solely for enthusiasm, but not for the technique of performance. Even if she pays all attention to the hole in the center of the head and completely ignores the frenum – the strip of skin that holds the foreskin. Although it would be worth doing the opposite! The oral sex technique itself is a very simple thing. To drive a partner to a frenzy, it is absolutely not necessary to do tricks in the spirit of Cicciolina the sword swallower.(What we have not seen in these glands!) Using the penis as a cocktail tube, trying to apply a vacuum on it, is also a waste of time. The easiest way is to act not with your mouth, but with your tongue and palms.

13. TELL HIM COMPLEMENTATION

Even the smartest macho are not always sure that they are doing everything right. We are actually afraid of not liking you – even if our meeting was short and with no plans for the future. Therefore, any compliment to our humble contribution to the common cause will be received with sincere gratitude.It is not at all necessary to look for lush images and weighty praises. It is enough just to say: “I have never had anything like this before!” (Even if the truthful part of this statement is related to the fact that no one has had sex with you in socks yet.)

14. KISSING HIM ON THE EARS AND NECK

The ears and neck are erogenous zones not only in women and cats. In this we are no different from you.

15. PLAY WITH ITS BEST PIECE

We are proud of our penis.We talk to him, we give him affectionate nicknames. But this does not mean that the penis is everything for us. In addition to him, men also have two very important paired organs, packed in one container. we really like it when they are touched, sorted and groped. By the way, on both sides of the penis there are special “pockets” in which the testicles sometimes hide during any extreme events. Mechanically, they can also be attached, although this is not so easy – they always strive to slip out of there. But your man will surely like the process.

16. SMILE

Many women, even those who sincerely love sex, consider it their duty to do in bed as if next to them is not an attentive and sensitive partner, but an eagle pecking out their liver. At the same time, when a man stops and begins to ask: (is it bad for you, a pea rolled under the feather bed? – he is answered that everything is amazingly good. Then – again! Twenty-five: grimaces of horror and crying faces. I don’t know who taught them that it is sexy and that you should not smile and be happy during sex.Yes you can, but !!! Men do not want to feel with tormentors and rapists at all – we would rather like a more user-friendly interface.

17. HANG IN THE BEDROOM MIRROR

In point 2 it was already said that for a man! visual images are very important. And when these images become twice as many …

18. HELP HIM ACHIEVE ORGASM

Want more, but is he already clearly entering the home stretch? And I would be glad to stop, but can’t it? Help the person.There is such an old, quite effective “stop-cock”: if at this time the testicles are pulled down to a man, ejaculation will be delayed. Only you need to pull without much excitement – otherwise it risks staying too long.

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90,000 How to satisfy a man in bed?

Almost every woman, choosing a spouse, apart from various individual qualities, appreciates the ability to satisfy him in bed. This is an important art for a woman, and it is important to figure out how to master it.

Drive any man crazy

In such a case, every little thing plays a role. It is important to foresee everything, clothing, behavior, gestures and more.

In clothes, it is important to emphasize your dignity, curves of the figure and show light intimacy. This can sometimes be the hem of the stockings or the hollow in the cut of the blouse. There is no universal method in behavior, everything is individual. Some men are attracted by shy women, while others are more relaxed and open.

In the process of sex, you need to be open and frank, there should be a reaction – this can be certain actions or sound.Put on leather underwear. Don’t underestimate the power of kissing, it’s the most commonly used way to drive a man crazy. There are certain places on a man’s body where kissing will undoubtedly help in seduction. But these places need to be determined empirically. That is, what for one man is ordinary touch, then for another man an explosion of emotions.

What do men like about sex?

There is a slight misconception that the most intimate environment for sex is twilight, but men, unlike women, prefer bright light to contemplate their beloved in all its glory, which requires a woman to have beautiful lace lingerie.Erotic massage will help to arouse your partner to the maximum. Any girl who has no experience in massage at all will cope with this matter. For a change, you can dance a light striptease for a man, for this you do not need to have special skills, you just can do a few sexual movements of the hips, and this will already be a kind of little dance. And if you use women’s harness, the level of temptation will increase by 25%.

In order to satisfy a man in bed, it is important to overcome your embarrassment and stiffness, this will help to enjoy intimacy for both man and woman.After all, where else can a couple of lovers be able to fully open up and relax. Don’t be afraid to take the initiative. Many women believe that the quality of their sex life is completely dependent on the man. But many men want to see female initiative, this adds to their self-confidence, making them feel needed and desired. Be sure to praise your man, admire his skills in bed. This is very important for them, because they are very sensitive about their skills in sex. Therefore, only a woman can elevate a man or humiliate and force him to compliment.

It is worth recognizing that male happiness largely depends on satisfaction in sexual life. No matter how a woman tries to cook deliciously, clean the house well and iron his shirts, life is miserable without good sex. A man is much more addicted to sex than a woman. Therefore, a woman should still think about it if she wants a happy marriage. After all, a lot is in the hands of a woman, it is she who can make the life of both happy and carefree.

90,000 10 Ways to Satisfy Your Husband in Bed | Lepato

10 ways to satisfy your man in bed.Ways are suitable for all ages, since all ages are submissive to love

1. Put on beautiful underwear

Lace, a combination of red and black shades, stockings with garters, all this will drive your man crazy. And if you also wear high-heeled shoes … Then just hold on

2. Move

All men like it when a woman moves during sex, and the more active, the better, and not so that he thinks that there is a log next to him.

3.Screaming

And sighing, whispering, squealing, squealing, moaning, all this is quite pleasant for a man, and if you also say a compliment to him, he will definitely be delighted.

4. Don’t call the police …

If your husband accidentally suggests anal sex. Such sex worries most of men because:

a) it is a ban;

b) interest in testing new sensations;

c) in men, this area is more erogenous.

5. To prolong the preliminary game

A man is especially excited when he is slightly fought back.But only slightly.

6. Ask what he would like

Everyone has fantasies that often fail to be realized in practice.

7. Improve your technique

Men are big fans of oral sex, so it is necessary to improve it.

8. Leave the lights on

Men are more turned on by the visual image than the sound and tactile one. He needs to see the scope of work …

9. Smile

During sex, try to smile, because a man does not want to feel like a tormentor and a rapist at all.

10. Preventing reaching orgasm

Do you still have a desire to continue, but he already has a clear home stretch? There is a very old, but quite effective “stop-cock”: if you pull the testicles down in time for the husband, then ejaculation will be delayed.

Only pull carefully, as ejaculation can be delayed for a long time.

How to satisfy a man in bed

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A spouse who is wise in life experience will choose the ability to maintain a conversation and the ability to deliver pleasure in sex as the fundamental qualities that his woman should have.Such simple requirements will help you always remain charming and inaccessible for your companion. How to satisfy a man in bed not every woman knows. How to become the only one desired for him and is it possible to learn this intimate art.

How to seduce a man

Heroines of romance novels or favorite TV series are able to ignite the fire of passion in their fans with an exceptionally casually thrown phrase or a light gesture. What style of clothing makes men want.Trying to imitate them, any woman strives to find the very words or movements to drive a man crazy.

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How to drive a man crazy

The first thing that catches your eye when you meet is, of course, your clothes. By choosing and assembling certain objects and things correctly, you can make a guy go crazy just by looking at you

What seduces men in clothes

  • Wear tight-fitting clothes that won’t hide the pulling curves of your body.
  • Highlight butt, breasts or thighs.
  • Pay attention to skirts with long slits.
  • Particular delight will be caused by the elastic band from stockings that is periodically shown in the cut.
  • Unbutton the top button on the blouse. Your companion’s gaze will be drawn to this, threatening to open up, details of clothing in order to accidentally see an attractive hollow.
  • Use sexy, lacy lingerie that adds femininity and excitement.
  • Choose attractive colors – red or black.But it is better to refuse blue.

How to satisfy a man in bed behavior

How to surprise a guy in the bedroom using certain techniques, words and gestures. In this case, there is no universal stimulant that turns everyone on without exception. Imagine, experiment, try and get it wrong. Only in this way will you understand which specific words will provide you with the expected result.

Modesty or Availability

  • Just remember that in some cases a translucent hint will not work for a young person who loves precision and clarity.
  • A frank confession can disrupt the “stop-crane” and unbalance. Therefore, it is very important to find the most appropriate tone for your revelations.

How to behave in sex

While having sex, show your partner that you also enjoy the actions he performs, so that he does not think that they are all in vain. If excessive modesty bothers you, try RENDEZ VOUS – FEMALE EXCITER If there is no reaction on your part (appropriate behavioral moments or sounds), then the desire to continue the process may disappear.Remember that you are not the only person with the desire to be seductive and attractive.

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How to drive a man crazy with a kiss

Kissing is another of the most common ways that a man is thrilled with pleasure.It is important to find the right area or point in which he will be most pleased.

Erogenous zones of men

There is an opinion that there is no better kiss than the caress of the penis. However, in reality this is not entirely true. Study the most common possible erogenous zones in men in order to experimentally find the optimal one for your gentleman:

  • Light touch of the neck area,
  • Biting the area between the navel and the lower torso,
  • Caressing ears, whispering tender words at the same time,
  • Gentle touch on the nipples, inner thighs or between the toes,
  • Exciting touching with lips of the intimate area.

How to get a man to get horny

You can take the path of least resistance and just find out from your beloved what he prefers more. If your conversation takes place in the right direction, then you will quickly move from words to actions.

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What men love in sex

  • Twilight is considered to be the best for creating an intimate indoor environment.Indeed, the female half of the population believes that it is quite erotic and sexy.
  • However, the male, on the contrary, prefers bright light.
  • Contemplating his beloved naked, the young man becomes more and more excited.

As additional ways to stimulate an increase in sexual desire in your loved one, you can suggest the following actions.

How to satisfy a man in bed ways

Women’s Receptions Method of conducting
Erotic massage Even a young girl who has absolutely no experience, with the help of simple actions with RENDEZ VOUS, a female pathogen, has the opportunity to please her companion.

  • For this, the usual massage actions should be given a light touch of eroticism, liberating and showing their own excited state.
  • At the same time, try to minimize the techniques of reflex and mechanical influence.

Otherwise, the effect will be completely opposite.

Instead of lashing out at you in a fit of desire, your gentleman can simply fall asleep, relaxing and feeling bliss all over his body.

  • Add a touch of eroticism to the languor of the produced process by wearing amazing underwear.
  • Touch not only parts of your loved one’s body, but your own as well.
  • In this case, the session may be long and will end with the expected continuation.
Dance steps Be relaxed

  • Using special sequential gestures can help you learn how to satisfy a man in bed.
  • In the event that you cannot find the necessary steps on your own, you can contact the teacher.
  • He will teach you how to dance more sexy and expressive.
  • You should throw aside your own constraint and stiffness covering the whole body.

Otherwise, the surprise may be spoiled.

  • Confident in her own attractiveness, a lady can be naked during the dance movements produced.
  • Do it slowly, put as much sensuality and sexuality into them as possible.
  • Allow the man to exclusively observe you, but not to touch with his hands.
  • Then in bed you are guaranteed real pleasure.
Application of cold or silk fabrics Use frozen fruit juice ice or ice cream.

  • Start drawing the intended stripes on the body.
  • Start at the chest area, then work down to the belly and finish with strokes on the thighs.
  • Repeat the traversed path using the language.
  • Light and delicate silk has always driven men crazy.
  • Tie a handkerchief over the eyes or hands of your chosen one, and use silk gloves to run over his body.
  • Warm and soft touch can relax and bring to orgasm.

Learn more from what men are thrilled in sex: How to make a man lust from caresses – the basics of passionate night foreplay

How to tenderly call your beloved man

I always want to call my dear life partner with tenderness, but so that he likes it too.At the same time, there is absolutely no desire to stoop to the heroes of foreign films, where only “expensive” or “expensive” sounds. Yes, and banal “pussy” or “fish” also do not really want.

Please note that by finding the best option for addressing your spouse, you can improve your relationship in bed as well. We bring to your attention the most common ideas.

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How to call a loved one Description
Named
  • Sounding your own name, according to psychologists, evokes the most pleasant associations for a person.
  • Plus, you can pick up gentle variations of it that don’t sound as cloying as, say, “cute cat.”
  • Pragmatists by nature do not at all perceive such treatment associated with the animal world, therefore they prefer only their own name.
  • Imagine that you call him “baby doll”, and in response you will see a surprised expression on his face followed by the question: “Don’t you remember my name?” You are not expecting such a reaction, right.
  • Therefore, it is worth turning on the imagination and choosing for a loved one a gentle derivative that can excite his imagination.
Young man’s suggestion When you decide that you want to refer to a sweet person with a personal nickname only you two know, and not by name, since anyone can call him that, try to ask about it directly.

But be sure to wait for the most opportune moment, and do not overwhelm you with an unexpected question.

The object of your desire must independently choose an appeal that will be happy to hear from your lips.

Choose an idea that interests you When you don’t have the courage to ask your loved one’s preferences, or the moment is not right, follow the well-known principle of “call others what you want to be called.”

  • Find affectionate names that suit your taste, and then change the ending.
  • Refer to your loved one to see his reaction.
  • If it is positive, then you are in luck.
  • If the attitude is negative, you should continue to experiment further.
  • In the end, you will either find the right word, or your companion will come up with the best solution.
  • It is important not to look for rude or derisive preferences in your dream world. This is definitely not going to please anyone.

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When choosing options for a gentle appeal to your gentleman, you should not be too original.Do not waste your time looking for obscure words, but rather enjoy each other’s company. The necessary thoughts will definitely come in the process. Perhaps they will be simple and banal, but they will come from a pure heart.

How to Maintain a Happy Relationship

Strange as it may seem, but an extremely varied and passionate sex life makes a man happy. Therefore, when girls think about how to satisfy a man in bed, they move in the right direction.Do not flicker, do not be hysterical, but sit down and think carefully whether you are personally happy in reality.

What men love most about a woman

Only a man with a happy woman can be truly happy. This truth has come to us since ancient times, and it does not require proof at all.

A young man experiencing sexual pleasure will be attached to his partner for many, many years. However, keep in mind that this does not mean at all that he will tie the knot.

When the topic of the family is not yet in the first place for you, then continue to act in the same direction.

How to satisfy a man in bed unforgettably

  • Give up shame and embarrassment and respond in a relaxed manner to all the calls of your beloved, then you can better understand how to satisfy a man in bed.
  • At the same time, try not to look promiscuous, as in this case you can lose respect for your own person.
  • Intimacy implies permissiveness, bordering on common desires.
  • In the process, a woman should submit to her man when she wants to and when it does not hurt or humiliate her. This is more likely to apply to married ladies. Do you want to make your spouse happy? Then strictly adhere to this guide and proceed.

You will not allow your husband to run to his mistress, who has delicious borscht and juicy cutlets. You yourself guess that he is not going for this in the direction opposite to the house.

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It just so happens that without rich sexual pleasures it will not work to keep your husband close to you, and even more so to make him happy. But, paradoxically, a sophisticated and experienced mistress in such matters will not always be able to break up a family in which relationships are built on exceptional success in bed.

This only means that there are still factors that give happiness to our loved ones.

These include:

  • cozy house,
  • delicious dinner,
  • order in things,
  • no conflicts.

Although, sometimes a drop of adrenaline can maintain a relationship, oddly enough. Remember Balzac’s famous saying:

In this phrase is hidden the soul of all women, as well as men, in fact. Whims, which are given out “dosed” are able to bring more happiness than obedience and wordless following the cute.

How to become happy and loved psychology of a single woman

In our feminine striving to make the chosen one happy, sad as it may seem, we forget about our own tiny joys.

  • It is worth learning to pamper yourself first.
  • Hear your heart.
  • Yes, self-denial and self-sacrifice for the good of the happy existence of your chosen boyfriend or man can bring a feeling of gratitude towards you. But is this happiness? Hardly.
  • It is the adoration of yourself that will become your happy key to the secret of cloudless coexistence.
  • Do not deny yourself the little things, then a man will appear next to him, who is in a state of complete satisfaction with life, he will definitely appear nearby, even if you do not expect it at all.

How to manipulate a man

You have already heard the phrase that the head turns where the neck points. And, of course, you know which gender they play in what role most often.And understanding how to satisfy a man in bed, every woman should try RENDEZ VOUS – FEMALE EXCITER at least once, comes only after studying all the intricacies of relationships.

Representatives of the strong half of humanity for many centuries have been trying to understand what is going on in the head of lovely ladies. And the latter, meanwhile, have long had several ways in stock that make it easy to manipulate their gentlemen.

How to drive a man crazy psychology

Fans with burning eyes for the sake of their chosen ones are ready for any action.This is written about in love stories and adventure stories. But do not think that the deceit of women is solely in selfish interest. Both sexes differ not only in gender, but also in mental and behavioral motives. And at some points, women’s tricks come in handy.

Which women are chosen as wives

The concept of a wife is so broad that it includes the following characteristics:

  • mother of future children,
  • Hearth Keeper,
  • support, support,
  • Counselor and loyal friend.

It is she who is able to endow him with strength and intelligence, accepting him with all his shortcomings, directing his movements along the right path. What is important is the very understanding of how exactly this happens, how you can exert influence in order to achieve a positive result.

Effective Manipulation Techniques

Woman’s behavior Feature Description
Close, weak and abandoned Most guys like this guy.

  • In your presence, he will feel his strength and will try to move mountains in order to get the star promised to you.
  • Consider just a small nuance.
  • This is how a confident man will act, and a weak one will not be able to do anything at all.
Affectionate treatment and praise Do not be naive that only young ladies can love with their ears.

  • The stronger sex is also not averse to hearing a few compliments towards yourself.
  • Say them gently in your ear, and you will see how your applicant “floated” and is ready to fulfill all your desires.
Feelings of jealousy
  • As one of your tricks, you can use light flirting with the fans around you.
  • A man gets furious when he realizes that his beloved can spend time with someone else, so he will prove his worth, tenderness and attentiveness.
Providing comfort The constant assertions of many wives that her husband will not be able to keep the house clean without her, occupy a certain position in society, or even remain hungry, oddly enough, work.

This thought firmly settles in his head, and in the end he really begins to think that this is so.

Scandals
  • Rare tantrums and hassles in some cases will help you achieve what you want.
  • For the sake of ending the disorder, he will be ready to do whatever you ask.

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Women’s Tricks

There are a great many effective methods of regulating male behavior.You can write a whole novel of these tricks to help women manage their soul mates. But the constant hassle can throw them off balance, so the shrewd and intelligent stronger sex learned many tricks in order to immediately find a compromise. Yes, and female wisdom allows you not to use well-known techniques too often.

Understanding how to satisfy a man in bed does not always require tantrums, licentious behavior, or scandals and a showdown in front of intimacy. Attentiveness and sensitivity on his part will always be if you become independent, gentle and show that he is the one and only.

How to make a guy fall in love with yourself

A guy who is languishing in anticipation of the upcoming meeting with you clearly has a very obvious feeling for you. Here’s just how to determine it from a distance. And how to intensify longing and suffering. Magic can come to your aid.

How to make a guy bored

Trying to make a difference in our lives, we are looking for the least expensive ways to make our dreams come true. And we often turn our gaze towards magical rites and rituals.

How to make a guy fall in love with you conspiracy

Rarely does anyone take into account that these processes require clear concentration and intense expression of will. Therefore, conducting a ritual with a mirror aimed at attracting a guy to yourself, in no case should you mentally think about the ingredients that should be added to the borscht. You will create a desire for yourself to eat and nothing else.

How to conduct a ceremony

  • You should try to draw a clear picture of the expected result in front of you.
  • Moreover, this must be done in the present, not the future tense.
  • When choosing a time, study the lunar cycles.
  • The most optimal period when the moon is rising.
  • Do not forget to keep the secret of such actions, do not trust it even to relatives and friends.

For the ceremony, you need to get some thing that the hand of your beloved touched and say the cherished words nine times:

What is important to know

  • Hide this item in your home so that no one sees it.
  • After performing a mysterious ritual, stop thinking about your desire, as if it had already come true.
  • To understand if your chosen one is bored, just do not communicate with him for a while.

Do you know how to fulfill your wishes with magic:

How to make a man run after you psychology

Your wary attitude towards magical actions can force you to turn your attention to psychology. It can also help make a young man die of boredom in your absence.

Human instincts can be trained. When we enjoy certain actions, we strive to do them over and over again. A young man feels good next to you, but without you – sheer melancholy. So he will look for meetings so that it will be wonderful again.

  • Consider the problematic point that you should learn to work around. You are not the only girl on the globe, so there is a certain degree of probability that sensuality can be experienced on the other.
  • Try to capture in his memory the remarkable episodes with your participation, so that the pleasure you have received will be remembered exclusively with your person.
  • Create a thread of connection that connects pleasant moments and you, and constantly remind your loved one about it.
  • This is the scent of your fragrance at the first meeting, the text of a song playing on a romantic date, words whispered in your ear in intimate moments, and more.

Will this work

Suppose a young man hears the song to which you had your first kiss, and he begins to associate it with you. Indulging in further memories, he begins to understand that his best moments were with you, and now he is lonely and sad.To put it bluntly, the sadness associated with your absence begins.

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How to make a man think of you at a distance with the power of thought

Sophisticated girlfriends who believe that they have received a certain amount of knowledge, they already know how to satisfy a man in bed, give “invaluable” advice to distance yourself from a loved one for a while, not answering his calls and not agreeing to meetings.

This method will be effective when you have already “hooked” on the object of your sighs.

Do not overdo it so that a hopeless project does not alienate your potential betrothed.

Over time, you can learn to tell if you are missed.

The main signs indicating these feelings are the following behavior:

  • The desire to be constantly near,
  • Frequent calls,
  • Communication via SMS or social networks,
  • Direct Gaze,
  • Constant need to touch your hands, hair, neck, etc.

How to make a man need you

It is known that our life consists not only of white, but also of black stripes. At such moments, everyone would like to feel secure support and hear the right words. Representatives of the strong half of humanity are no exception.

It is important to understand in a timely manner at what moment your man will need to be supported and helped with advice.

Top tips for women

Frequent mood swings may not always indicate cheating, as most ladies are used to thinking.There are many reasons for this unreasonable behavior.

  • Try to avoid scandals and reproaches with claims.
  • Calmly and with equanimity, find out the reason to work together to try to take certain actions.
  • Feeling the warmth of a family hearth makes it much easier to cope with life’s difficulties.
  • Cook his favorite meal, give him a massage or take a relaxing bath. The male subconscious mind will quickly perceive your actions, and not simple words.
  • He will be able to understand that no matter what troubles occur in his life, you will always be there and will provide the necessary psychological assistance.

Be creative.

A fresh look at the situation can assess the scale of the disaster and find the necessary solution.

  • Listen carefully to his story and consider all the options for correcting the situation. Sometimes your wise advice will be very helpful.
  • It is not enough to strive to help your loved one.You have to correctly construct a sentence so that a careless word does not have a completely opposite effect.

Why Men Don’t Like Pity

Many young people, especially when they are young and inexperienced, prefer not to trust the advice they receive from their chosen ones. They may also not tolerate sympathy, perceiving it as a manifestation of pity. Trying to take part in problems will only provoke unnecessary aggression.

  • Choose your words carefully.
  • Clarify that you believe that he will be able to find the best way out of this situation.
  • If you can’t ask everything thoroughly, stop trying.
  • Having calmed down a little, he will explain everything himself.
  • Your criticisms at such moments may also be completely inappropriate.
  • The male ego requires independent decision-making, they just need to be the best always and in everything.

Receiving your “invaluable” advice, the man is once again convinced of his failure, that he is too angry.Think better of how to satisfy a man in bed, so that when troubles arise, you do not run into a scandal.

It is better to correct the inappropriate behavior of your life partner by a direct comment on this matter. And you will express your opinion about the troubles when he himself turns to you with this request.

Tell a man that he is the best

  • Find the right phrases to support and calm the raging male. Make it clear that he is not to blame for the troubles that have arisen.
  • This thought should be firmly implanted in his brain, since circumstances out of his control lead him to the feeling that he himself provoked their appearance.
  • Tell him that he is the best at everything.
  • Help him stop digging into his own mistakes and already come close to solving problems.

Do I need to become a bitch

The desire to acquire bitchy character traits most often arises in the brain of a desperate lady. The provoking factors can be:

  • Annoyance on the whole male gender,
  • “Secondary” roles,
  • Lack of willpower and stuff.

Having approached a certain line that has arisen on the path of life, we understand that we absolutely do not want to cross it, everything is terribly sick of it. Therefore, there is a desire to expose all the sharp corners of our character, and simply – to become a bitch.

Why do men love bitches

  • By the way, all gentlemen perceive such women as brave, passionate, temperamental and self-sufficient persons.
  • And they really like it.
  • But don’t go over the edge of hysteria and become a woman-saw who destroys her opponent in a moral sense.

How to Become the Perfect Woman for a Man

There are a lot of tips on how to achieve such peculiar behavioral moments. Moreover, many of them are quite contradictory and “smack” of overt feminism. But such ladies do not need such an ideology, they do not belittle the dignity of their gentlemen, as in this way they destroy their femininity.

Stopping feeling the strong shoulder of our partner along the path of life, we ourselves try to gain determination, confidence and achieve success.So, subconsciously, girls can compensate for the lack of a “masculine” principle in their spouse.

But you should carefully choose this behavior, because:

  • Roles in your family can change dramatically,
  • There is a high degree of probability that your husband will leave you and go to look for a place where he will again become the head of the family.
  • So, support your sweetheart in times of difficulty, turn his actions in the direction you need, inspiring and motivating for good luck.

Most likely, in your arsenal there are invaluable methods of how to satisfy a man in bed.Do not rush to cross out the tricks and temptations that you did not find in this article. On the contrary, it may be worth adding something else so that your happy and serene family life is not overshadowed by black clouds, but is illuminated by an exceptionally bright and sincere feeling – Love.

More female advice in relationships with a man:

How to surprise your husband in the bedroom intimate secrets for women

How to understand that a man is in love but hides his feelings because of insecurity

What to do if a man has cooled down: advice from a psychologist and facts about male attraction

How to return a husband to the family and try to start all over again

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