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Wedding Day Essentials 101: The Ultimate Checklist

These things are so important to remember, but so easy to forget.

Of course you’ll want your emergency kit, your transportation and your day-of itinerary locked down. But those things are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to your wedding day essentials. So just to be sure you’re briefed on the prerequisites, we’ve rounded up the less obvious things you’ll definitely need when the day rolls around. This way, you’ll be fully prepared when it’s officially crunch time, and you won’t have to delay the ceremony because you’ll be running out to grab your legal documents or trying to find an ATM. And don’t feel bad if you haven’t thought of these yet—you wouldn’t be the first.

1. Cash (and Envelopes) for Tipping…

Between your waitstaff, your DJ and anyone doing any heavy lifting to help set up your ceremony or reception, it’s likely you’ll have lots of people you should tip on your wedding day. Bring cash and premade envelopes to avoid loose bills and having to write checks on the spot.

2. …And for Unforeseen Incidents

Maybe you didn’t know one of your vendors doesn’t accept credit cards, or someone unexpectedly goes above and beyond the call of duty. Either way, you don’t want to be stuck in a position where you either have to run out to an ATM in the middle of the day, or leave someone in a lurch. Be prepared: Bring the cash.

3. Your Marriage License

Yes, you probably want your wedding to be legal, so definitely don’t forget to bring your marriage license. Since you’ll be focused on, well, getting married, hand it over to your officiant or appoint a responsible person to look after it so it doesn’t get lost amid the chaos.

4. Chargers, Chargers, Chargers

Even if you’re having an unplugged ceremony or swearing off your cell phone for the night, you might still want a phone to keep in touch with family members, attendants and vendors during the day, or in case of emergency. And given the fact that you’ll probably receive more texts and calls on your wedding day than on your birthday (even though you’ve already designated your point people for certain phone calls), you’ll want to be prepared to plug in if need be.

5. Change of Shoes

As much as you love your brand-new four-inch stilettos you bought specifically to match your wedding gown, be honest with yourself: They probably won’t be comfortable when you’re breaking it down on the dance floor all night. Bring a pair of comfier heels you’ve already had a chance to break in, or even sneakers.

6. Tools

Tools are one of the most important day-of wedding essentials! You want to be prepared for any surprises, especially if you don’t have a planner. A set of basic tools is a must have: a screwdriver, a hammer, nails. Also bring double-sided tape (both for wardrobe malfunctions and stubborn décor), glue and a set of eyeglass screwdrivers just in case.

7. Outdoor Supplies (for Outdoor Weddings)

If you’re getting married outside, be ready should mother nature crash the party by having some special wedding day necessities on hand. Though it may clash with your perfume, bug spray is an absolute essential. Sunscreen and aloe vera are also crucial for daytime ceremonies.

8. Cosmetics

Even the best makeup can get smudged by tears. Keep a suite of basic cosmetics on hand. Even if you get your makeup done ahead of time, you can’t go wrong by having foundation, mascara, lipstick and the works at the ready. Make sure that the groom brings some basics for him too. He should have easy access to hair product and deodorant.

9. For the Wedding Night

The party doesn’t end at the reception, at least for the lucky couple. Bring any…supplies you might need for the bedroom. Remember to pack your day-after outfit; it’s much more fun to have morning coffee with your new spouse in a fresh set of clothes.

10. Medicine

A long-day of standing, crying, eating, drinking and dancing can take a toll on even the most stalwart couples. Bring NSAIDs for pain relief and antacids for the culinary festivities. Bring enough for the guests too.

The Wedding Day Emergency Kit Essentials: What to Include

Trust us, you don’t want to be stuck without these essentials.

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While you certainly don’t want to expect any emergencies on your wedding day, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. To prepare for small beauty blunders or fashion mishaps, have a wedding day emergency kit on hand. This is an essential wedding planning task that shouldn’t be forgotten. In fact, some planners say that making a wedding day survival kit is one of the most important things to complete before the celebration. So, what exactly should you put in a wedding day emergency kit? And who should hold it throughout the day? We tapped experts to answer all of your wedding emergency kit questions. Use this as your go-to guide when making your kit to prevent last-minute emergencies.

In this article:

What is a Wedding Day Emergency Kit?

A wedding day emergency kit is exactly what you think: It’s a collection of toiletries and household essentials to fix any problems you might encounter on your big day, from a ripped hemline to a nauseous stomach or a broken earring. “I always recommend having a small kit on hand that will solve common wedding day blunders,” says Amanda Chabot, lead planner for Mavinhouse Events. Not only will a bridal emergency kit help you fix small issues, it’ll give you peace of mind to know that you’re prepared for anything. “Your wedding is a culmination of so many hours of planning, so being prepared will help make you feel completely calm and enjoy each moment,” she says. Adds Amy Nichols, founder of Amy Nichols Special Events and Intimate I Dos: “An emergency kit will also ensure that you, your family or wedding party don’t have to run any last minute errands to get something you might have forgotten.”

What Should Be in a Wedding Day Emergency Kit?

Choosing what to include in your wedding day emergency kit might feel overwhelming at first. While you can’t predict every scenario that might happen on your wedding day, it’s helpful to talk it out with your S.O. and your wedding planner or coordinator. “Walk through the day and consider ‘what if’ situations,” suggests Cassy Anderson of Cassy Rose Events. “Then, pack items that’ll help you solve potential problems you can identify.”

Determining exactly what belongs on your emergency kit list is a personal choice, but we’ve outlined a few must-haves below.

Jewelry Cleaner

Your jewelry should be in top shape for your wedding day, so pack a cleaning kit in your emergency bag. “Apart from an engagement party, your wedding day is when friends and family actually take your hand and hold your rings up to their face for a good look,” says Hannah Peck, founder of Juli Diamond Cleaning System. “Photographers and videographers also shoot close-ups of the rings, so it’ll be easy to see if your jewelry isn’t clean. Your diamond’s sparkle can’t be captured in an image or video if dulling grime and deposits are blocking the light from bouncing around in your stone.”

Peck recommends including a jewelry cleaning device in your emergency kit to give your rings a deep cleanse on the morning of your wedding. Ask your maid of honor to handle diamond cleaning duties while you get your hair and makeup done.

Sewing Kit

Stitch minor rips or snags with a small sewing kit. You don’t have to be a seamstress to make simple fixes to a wedding dress or bridesmaid gown. In case you (or someone in your wedding party) has a minor fashion faux pas, you’ll be thankful to have a needle and thread on hand. We recommend buying a few spools of thread in colors that match your wedding dress and the bridal party’s outfits to be safe.

Makeup for Touch-Ups

During your hair and makeup trial with your glam squad, determine what products you’ll be wearing on the big day so you can stock up on a few travel-size pieces. Your makeup might shift throughout the ceremony and reception, but you can prolong your look by having a few key products in your bridal emergency kit. Blotting pads, concealer, mascara and setting spray are all helpful toiletries to have nearby. Makeup artists will often provide a small vial of the bride’s lip color for reapplication. Give this to maid of honor for lip touch-ups before big moments like family portraits or the reception entrance.

You might not think backup earrings are necessary, especially if you’ve selected a special pair for your big day. But a smaller, more comfortable set can actually be a major lifesaver, especially if your original earrings are heavy on your earlobes. Backups will also come in handy if an earring breaks or gets lost during the day’s events. You can never have too many earring backs either—throw a handful of extras in your tote for yourself and your bridesmaids.

In addition to these larger items, fill your wedding survival kit with small toiletries and handy essentials. Use our checklist below to ensure that your emergency bag has everything you could possibly need.

  • Printed copy of the wedding day timeline
  • Safety pins
  • Bobby pins
  • Band-aids
  • Floss
  • Hairspray
  • Deodorant
  • Nail polish & remover
  • Clear nail polish
  • Tampons or pads
  • Fashion tape
  • Pain reliever
  • Antacids
  • Super glue
  • Baby powder
  • Lint roller
  • Hand lotion
  • Sunscreen
  • Bug spray
  • Tweezers
  • Q-tips
  • Toothbrush & toothpaste
  • Static guard
  • Portable phone charger
  • Tissues
  • Small snacks (like granola bars or crackers)
  • Blister balm
  • Stain remover
  • Scissors
  • Mints
  • Hair ties
  • Lip balm

When Should You Pack the Wedding Day Emergency Kit?

It’s recommended to start packing your emergency kit in the weeks—not days—leading up to your wedding. The week before your wedding can feel like a whirlwind of events, which can lead to oversights when packing the essentials. To reduce your stress, start adding things to your survival bag as early as possible. “Packing the emergency kit a few weeks before the wedding leaves room for little error,” advises Robin Jenkins of Brown Bird Events. “This allows you to think clearly and objectively about what you need.”

Your emergency kit isn’t just for the wedding day either. Bring the bag for all of your wedding weekend events, from the rehearsal dinner to the farewell brunch.

Who Should Hold the Emergency Kit?

Don’t worry about keeping track of your emergency kit on the day of wedding, because you’ll have plenty of other things to focus on. Instead, ask someone close to you to keep track of your essentials. “Before the wedding, give your emergency kit to someone who is responsible, trustworthy and dependable,” suggests Linda Ferguson, Wedding and Event Sales Manager for Hotel Viking. “This could be the maid of honor, a best friend or a family member.”

If you’ve hired a wedding planner or day-of coordinator, they can also hold onto your wedding day emergency kit. What matters most is that you trust whoever’s in charge of your essentials—that way, you’ll enjoy your wedding day stress-free.

Wedding Day Essentials For Your Emergency Kit

Planning Basics

Don’t let an an accidental stain or upset stomach ruin the big day. Come prepared for anything with this list of wedding day essentials.

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As the maid of honor, one of main your responsibilities is to help the wedding day run smoothly and to keep the bride at ease. When it comes to your best friend’s big day, there’s no such thing as being too prepared, so it’s a great idea to collect some essential items ahead of time in order to have them on hand if necessary. The bride (and everyone else) will thank you when you’ve helped avert a crisis! 

Here are some essentials we suggest having in your wedding day emergency kit, just in case:

Touch-Up Items

  • Makeup (lipstick, powder, blush)
  • Eye drops
  • Deodorant
  • Mints
  • Blotting papers
  • Comb
  • Mini mirror
  • Hair Sspray
  • Handkerchief/tissues
  • Tweezers
  • Nail file
  • Nail polish
  • Q-tips
  • Perfume

Backup Items

  • Hair elastics
  • Bobby pins
  • Earring backs
  • Extra contact lenses

Wellness Items
  • Pain reliever
  • Antacid
  • Water bottle
  • Energy bar/easy snack (one that won’t make a mess)

Wardrobe Malfunction Items
  • Chalk
  • Hem tape
  • Mini sewing kit
  • Static guard
  • Safety pins
  • Fashion tape
  • Lint roller

Extra Toiletries

  • Adhesive bandages
  • Floss
  • Tampons
  • Lotion

Miscellaneous Extras
  • Charged cell phone
  • Cell phone charger (portable and/or wall adapter) 
  • Cash
  • Drinking straw

Optional Items
  • Bug spray
  • Sunscreen
  • Flats or flip flops
  • Lighter
  • Mouthwash
  • Antibacterial hand wipes

Why You Need a Wedding Day Emergency Kit + Checklist of What To…

Reason #4837 why you need a Wedding Day Emergency Kit.

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California Academy of Sciences | Annie McElwain Photography

As maid of honor for my sister’s wedding, I (Denise) wore a strapless dress.

Now I don’t know about you, but I’m no Heidi Klum. I’ll probably never be asked to model bras for Victoria’s Secret if you know what I mean, so I needed to make sure that strapless gown stayed put against all odds. I’d worn a strapless dress at weddings before, and I have to admit: I spent half the night pulling my dress up.

I wasn’t interested in constantly monitoring my dress’ coordinates at my sister’s reception, so I made an appointment to have my dress altered 2 weeks before the wedding. When I got the dress back from the seamstress, I was thrilled. It fit like a glove! It passed every test: jumping up and down, dancing, sitting, you name it.

The day of the wedding, I put my dress on—and to my horror it felt loose. I guess those last few spin classes did more than I wanted them to! Luckily, one of the bridesmaids had fashion tape in her bag. I’d never used it before, but all I could hear in my head was Tim Gunn saying, “Make it work!” We lined the very top of the dress with a couple of pieces of tape, and I crossed my fingers and hoped for the best…

I’m proud to say that fashion tape saved my life! My dress didn’t budge all night—and let me tell you—I put it to the test and danced my butt off!

This is just one example of why it’s *crucial* to have a Wedding Day Emergency Kit.

This small makeup bag filled with “just in case” items can fix most of those little wedding-day problems—and end up saving the day! Got a pounding headache pre-ceremony? Pop an Advil. Corner of your eyelash coming unglued? Whip out that tube of DUO. Did you spill some red wine or bust a seam? Luckily you’ve packed some Shout Wipes and a mini sewing kit! From double-sided tape to deodorant, an emergency kit can be a real lifesaver on the big day.


Here’s a list of 32 items I’d recommend a bride and bridesmaids have handy in an emergency kit for the wedding day:


  • Fashion tape (obvi)
  • Sewing kit (this will include mini scissors and safety pins!)
  • Tweezers
  • Extra jewelry and earring backs, in case anyone forgets their accessories or something breaks and you need a replacement.
  • Tide To Go pen, Shout Wipes, baby powder, and/or white chalk to remove or hide any stains
  • Baby wipes, makeup remover wipes, or tissues
  • Bobby pins and/or hair ties
  • Breath mints. You could even pack a travel-sized toothbrush + toothpaste or floss if you want.
  • Tampons
  • Advil or any other necessary meds.
  • Band-Aids
  • Super glue
  • Clear nail polish
  • A bottle of nail polish that matches your mani/pedi, in case they chip.
  • Eyelash glue if you’re wearing falsies.
  • Travel lotion
  • Travel hairspray
  • Sole inserts for high heels (your feet will thank me).
  • Solemates heel protectors – especially if you’re having an outdoor wedding!
  • Nail file
  • Lipstick, lipgloss, and/or Chapstick
  • Oil blotting sheets for your face: I love them because they take the shine away without loading on another layer of makeup.
  • Q-tips
  • Travel deodorant
  • Static Guard
  • Lint roller
  • Small brush or comb
  • Sample spritzer of your fave perfume. Gotta love those tiny bottles!
  • Small mirror
  • An extra pair of contacts, if you wear them.
  • Flip-flops for dancing
  • A healthy snack, in case you get hangry pre-ceremony.

Our Type-A motto? You can never be too prepared!


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Everything You Need For A Wedding Day Emergency Kit

There are so many little jobs to be done in the run up to your wedding day, that it’s easy to forget about one of the most crucial things on your to-do list: making a plan for on-the-day emergencies! Unfortunately, wardrobe malfunctions, makeup disasters, headaches and blisters do happen, even on your wedding day, so it’s worth putting aside some time to compile a little survival kit. That way, if you break a nail or lose a button, you can relax in the knowledge that you’ve got everything you need to get it sorted. And we’ve made it even easier with this post, which features a checklist of things to include in your wedding day emergency kit. All you’ve got to do is grab a pretty cosmetic bag or tote and get packing!

Photo by Craig and Eva Sanders via One Fab Day

What to Put in Your Wedding Emergency Kit: A Handy Checklist

Hair and Makeup:

  • Cotton buds
  • Emery board or nail file
  • Lip balm
  • Hand lotion
  • Bobby pins or other hair pins
  • Tweezers
  • Hairbrush or comb
  • Eyeliner, if using
  • Lipstick in your chosen colour
  • Lip pencil, if using
  • Pencil sharpener
  • Finishing Powder
  • Small mirror
  • Nail polish in your chosen colour
  • Eyelash glue
  • Hairspray
  • Deodorant
  • Makeup remover
  • Baby wipes or wet wipes
  • Sunscreen
  • Perfume or fragrance
  • Hair straightener if using
  • Face mist, if relevant

Photo by Emma Russell Photography via One Fab Day

Clothing and Accessories:
  • Sewing kit with needles, thread, spare buttons, and safety pins
  • Fashion tape (for keeping clothes in place)
  • Scissors
  • Stick-on instant hemming tape
  • Clear nail polish if you’re wearing tights (to stop ladders from getting bigger)
  • White chalk (for masking stains on a white dress)
  • Stain remover wipes
  • Lint roller
  • Crochet hook (if your dress has got lots of buttons)
  • Shoe polish
  • Spare shoe laces
  • Flat shoes (if you’re going to be changing them in the evening)
  • Extra earring backs

Photo by Annie Kheffache via One Fab Day

General Must-Haves:
  • Phone charger
  • Chewing gum
  • Breath mints
  • Toothpaste and toothbrush
  • Eye drops
  • Plasters
  • Blister Plasters
  • Insoles
  • Painkillers
  • Antihistamine tablets
  • Insect repellent, if relevant
  • Hand Sanitiser
  • Tissues (you can never have too many!)
  • Sanitary pads, tampons, or other sanitary products
  • A snack
  • Water
  • Rescue remedy or calming essential oils
  • A copy of the wedding-day itinerary
  • A list of contact details for suppliers
  • A small amount of cash
  • A bag to store everything in

Featured image: Wedding Survival Kit by Kate Aspen

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14 Items Every Bride Needs On Her Wedding Day

There is no denying the morning of a wedding can be a bit hectic for the bride. There is so much to do and think about, little things can get missed. And a bride will discover how those little things can make the day easier and more pleasurable.

It All Starts With a Bag

It starts with the bride’s bag. On her wedding morning, the bride is likely going to have a bag filled with things she needs for the day ahead.

What are these things you ask? Be sure to pack these 14 essentials for your wedding day.

14 Essential Items Every Bride Should Have On Her Wedding Day

The bridge should make a checklist and make sure the following items are on the list.

  • A comfortable robe. You will not be wearing your wedding dress all day (we hope). A good robe will be great for hair and makeup preparation. However, make sure the robe is also camera-friendly, especially if your photographer is getting some pre-wedding pictures.
  • Bottled water. Yes, there will likely be bottled water available. It’s still not a bad idea to have an extra bottle in the bag.
  • Water facial spray bottle. A little spritz now and then will be refreshing throughout the day.
  • Travel mouthwash. Just a little to guard against sour breath.
  • Cell phone charger.
  • Travel-size package of tissues.
  • Blotting papers. It does not sound attractive, yet even brides sweat on wedding days.
  • Travel sewing kit.
  • Deodorant.
  • Aspirin/pain reliever.
  • Clear nail polish
  • Extra lipstick
  • Safety pins
  • Clothing tape

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The Ultimate Packing List for Your Wedding Day: Checklist for Couples

As your wedding day quickly approaches, you’ll start to notice the amount of things that you’ve accumulated and need to bring with you to the venue before or the day of the wedding. Between finalizing details with your vendors and dropping things off, it’s a juggling act to remember all the things you need to take care of before the big day.

While you don’t want to forget any of your crafty decorations or sentimental items, there are some things that you absolutely cannot forget to bring with you on the wedding day. We’ve put together a basic list of wedding day items all couples should pack.

Use this list to help you get the ball rolling and add, delete or edit it to make it your own. Start early and create a list of all the items you want to bring so nothing is left behind.

And before you head off to the ceremony, double check to make sure you have all the items on this list so your wedding will go off without a hitch!

Photo by Whiskers and Willow Photography

Wedding Day Packing List

  • Getting ready outfit (PJs, robe slippers, etc.)
  • Snacks for the morning of the wedding and bottled water to stay hydrated
  • Your wedding day timeline (Print off a few copies to hand out to suppliers & bridal party)
  • A list of your suppliers and their contact details
  • Pen, notepad, and post its
  • Wedding day emergency kit
  • Your perfume
  • Lipstick in the color that you’ll be wearing (so you can reapply after eating!)
  • Cash in envelopes for on-the-day suppliers (if necessary)
  • Phone charger
Photo by Kurt Boomer Photography

Bridal Attire

  • Your wedding dress on a hanger, freshly steamed and safely packed in the bag. (Watch that zipper!)
  • Undergarments
  • Veil (If you’re wearing one!)
  • Hair accessories
  • Your engagement ring
  • Both wedding bands
  • Bridal jewelry (earrings, necklace, bracelet, rings, etc.)
  • Wedding shoes
  • Any sentimental items you want to walk down the aisle with

Men’s Attire

  • Suit or tuxedo jacket
  • Shirt and pants, freshly pressed
  • Vest (if applicable)
  • Suspenders (if applicable)
  • Bow tie or tie
  • Belt
  • Underwear
  • Socks
  • Dress shoes
  • Accessories (handkerchief, watch, cufflinks, etc.)
Photo by Hilary Cam Photography

Wedding Details to Photograph

  • Your wedding invitation suite
  • An addressed invitation envelope with stamps
  • Any sentimental items or other details that you’d like photographed

Ceremony Necessities

  • Ceremony programs
  • Any DIY items (signage, aisle markers, arch, etc.)
  • A copy of your marriage vows
  • Marriage license
  • Photo ID and any paperwork needed for the legal ceremony (if applicable)
Photo by Svenja Schuerheck

Reception Details

  • Cake topper & cake knife
  • Table numbers
  • Seating chart
  • Day-of wedding stationery (escort cards/display, menu, etc.)
  • Guestbook & good quality pens/markers
  • Card box
  • Signage (welcome sign, quotes, gift table sign, guest book sign, etc.)
  • Any DIY items
  • Guest favors

Wedding Gifts

  • Gifts for your parents
  • Gifts for your bridal party; this includes bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, flower girls, and ring bearers.
  • Gifts for each other (if you decide to)
  • Love letters to exchange with each other the morning of the wedding
Photo by Idalia Photography

What to Pack in Your Wedding Overnight Bag

  • PJs
  • Comfortable shoes & socks
  • Wedding night lingerie
  • Outfit for the morning after the wedding
  • Toothbrush & toothpaste
  • Shampoo & conditioner
  • Hair mask
  • Oil based makeup remover & face wash
  • Face mask
  • Moisturiser
  • Cotton balls
  • Nail file
  • Sanitary pads & tampons
  • Your makeup bag
90,000 Wedding Day: Tips for Brides

A wedding is the biggest holiday for any couple, because the story of a new family begins with it. The main decoration of the solemn day, as a rule, is the bride herself: all eyes and lenses are directed at her, guests and the future spouse admire her, and little girls will dream of growing up and becoming the same as her. We talked to experts and decided to combine in one article useful tips to help you shine on your own wedding day!

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Photographer Alexander Nesterov

The right start – morning of the bride

We all know the saying that as you celebrate the New Year, you will spend it.So, here, on the wedding day, the same rule applies – the beginning of this important day is crucial , so take this moment with great responsibility. What does it mean?

First, it is very important that you rest and sleep . In All Weddings Agency advises to spend nights before the wedding in the same place where gathering and the entire wedding procession will take place. Do not tire yourself with early wakes, rush and kilometer-long traffic jams on an already busy day.Everyone needs you rested and energetic, so a sound sleep, a delicious breakfast and a beautiful collection will inspire and charge you with a good mood.

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All Weddings Agency

By the way, about breakfast – it is our number two point. Regardless of how you feel about this meal in everyday life, on your wedding day it has vital . In , iMarry insists on the importance of breakfast for several reasons: “Even if the anticipation and excitement does not go down your throat on the wedding morning, force yourself to eat at least something light .Many wedding planners will confirm the importance of this advice: on the wedding day, a girl practically does not have a single free minute, and will need a lot of energy . If you neglect the morning meal, there is a high probability that marriage vows will have to be taken with the rumbling of an empty stomach. It is also worth having breakfast, as even a glass of champagne drunk on an empty stomach can cause quite severe intoxication and cause dizziness. Remember this! ”

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Gathering the bride

You can do or not do the shooting of the bride’s gatherings, this is the choice of every bride, because the fashion for such shooting came to us recently and this is perhaps not the case when it is necessary to keep everything as a keepsake.If you still want to arrange a shooting, then there are several nuances that will allow you to create the “perfect picture”.

The iMarry agency gives some organizational tips:

  1. When choosing a place for gathering, give preference to a bright room with large windows . For this, both the stylist and the photographer will be grateful to you.

  2. Invite a photographer and videographer approximately one hour before the end of the collection.You can skip the stage of applying the tonal base in the photo report.

  3. Prepare your beautiful details (jewelry, shoes, dress, bouquet) for the photographer in advance and put them in one place. You will not have to be distracted while working with a stylist to find accessories.

  4. Add 20-30 minutes at the end of your fundraising for your morning portraits : good light, fresh makeup and a calm atmosphere are great conditions for creating quality wedding portraits.

One of the most popular options for the gathering space for the bride is hotel – here both the interior and the light will allow you to create stunning photographs. In addition, in case of emergency, the hotel staff will always be able to help you – have you forgotten to charge your phone at home, have a headache or a wrinkled dress? No matter what happens, the hotel staff can help!

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As for the bride’s image, wedding organizer Katerina Irko ( Katerina Irko Wedding Project ) notes that does not necessarily have to make the bride’s morning white, powdery and airy .“Black always looks very stylish, elegant and luxurious. And the tenderness, light and love that the bride radiates will ideally complement and create the most beautiful wedding image. ”

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The key to success is good mood

Do you know what exactly will be remembered by your guests for a long time? Not a multi-storey wedding cake and not even an enchanting performance by invited artists, although, of course, they will also be remembered. Your smile ! This is what will make your holiday unforgettable.Happy and relaxed , benevolent hostess of the celebration, who gives a good mood to everyone around , is able to outshine any delights that you can afford. Therefore, try to carefully prepare for Day X. And, no, we are not talking about organizational concerns, which, on the contrary, will make you nervous and irritable: it is better to delegate such chores to wedding coordinator . On the eve of the ceremony, you need to put yourself in order emotionally and physically – to relax! If everything is going as it should, then all preparations for are over and the most important thing now is to gain strength to get great pleasure from the wedding day!

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Alexander Nesterov

Remember convenience

Of course, every bride wants to be the most beautiful at her wedding.But beauty is not always convenient . Make sure you feel comfortable throughout your wedding day in advance. All of our bridal professionals emphasize such important points as replacement shoes and beauty without sacrificing comfort . With the first point, everything is clear – take a pair of comfortable shoes (for example, ballet flats) with you, believe me, you will be grateful for your prudence, because no shoes can be comfortable throughout the entire wedding evening.In addition, the specialists of wedding boutique Wonderwhite remind that in case of worn-out feet, bride’s first aid kit should contain plaster , as well as silicone pads for shoes and stick for calluses , which should be treated with feet before wear shoes, or when discomfort occurs.

The second point is neglected by many brides, from which we, together with experts, discourage you with all our might. A wedding dress should be not just beautiful, but comfortable .If you do not want to make concessions, then the perfect solution can be two wedding dresses – one for the official ceremony, the second – for the active part of the evening.

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So, our main advice to the bride on her wedding day is to relax and have fun! All organizational issues should be transferred to a professional, and all the details should have been thought out before the ceremony. As soon as the clock strikes twelve and a new day has come – your wedding day – all worries should be put on the back burner.You are a bride, and today you are marrying the closest, dearest and beloved man, with whom, to great happiness, fate brought you to the altar. A new wonderful stage begins in your life, because now you will experience all the hardships and joys together with your soul mate. Don’t waste time on insignificant little things: just allow yourself to be happy, not because there are many guests around and you are wearing a chic white dress, but because you are infinitely lucky to find true love .

90,000 Everything you need for a wedding, a wedding checklist

Wedding little things or

What you can do without at a wedding

In this list I describe various wedding little things without which it is quite possible to do without, but traditionally they are present at weddings. Whether they are at your wedding or not – the decision is yours.

In this list I describe various wedding little things without which it is quite possible to do without, but traditionally they are present at weddings. Whether they are at your wedding or not – the decision is yours.These are just a few points where little things can save your wedding budget. Or you can spend it on the contrary and do it beautifully.

Posters for the ransom, and the ransom of the bride itself. A strange custom in the modern world. I am writing about this in detail in this article “Why do you need a ransom?”

Pillow for rings. She is only needed in the registry office, and for photographing rings during training camps. (more about the pillow and holders for rings with photos)
In the registry office, you can use their saucer, you can use your own pillow.The choice is yours.

Painted whipping glasses – everything is simple here, you can buy the most economical weddings, cheap glasses in Auchan, tie ribbons on them.

Glasses of the newlyweds for the banquet. It is quite possible to do with the usual ones.

Chest for gifts (money) . Not a very convenient accessory, but for some reason many brides liked it. Usually placed on the table of the newlyweds. Envelopes with cash gifts are put there. Alas, it often happens that the envelopes do not fit there.In addition, I do not advise leaving a large amount in front of everyone.

Decorations for cars . You can buy ready-made kits, you can do it yourself. It is important to remember that when installing jewelry on the roof or bonnet, it is important not to scratch the paint. The speed of a car with such modifiers is usually limited to 40-60 km / h, then there is a risk that they will be blown away.
But there are some positive aspects to decorating cars. If you are moving in a motorcade, then you can be seen on the road and respectable drivers will not break the convoy.

Spread . (I don’t know what to call it, then what you can be sprinkled at the entrance from the registry office or at the entrance to the restaurant).
You can buy artificial rose petals (more expensive), you can buy natural ones in almost any flower kiosk.
They also buy firecrackers from candy for sprinkling. Whether you want it or not, it’s up to you

Folder for marriage certificate It is better to buy a folder in advance. At the door of the registry office, the folder will be 3 times more expensive. (although you can do without it).

Lock . Fashionable wedding accessory. Usually hung on bridges or fences. It should be noted that in Moscow there are only a few places where you can legally attach locks. In other places they are cut down.

Towel, salt shaker and loaf . With these items, the newlyweds are greeted by their parents at the entrance to the banquet hall. Is it possible to do without them – yes you can.

Icon . For a parental blessing for a happy family life, then the icon is transferred to the newly-made family.

Album for wishes – In the restaurant the album is passed around or left in a conspicuous place and guests can leave wishes for the newlyweds there.

Invitations for guests – they are usually made and given to guests before the wedding. Such invitations will remain for guests later as a souvenir. For invitations, you can use the photos that we will take on the love-store.

Gifts for guests . Guests give gifts to the newlyweds for the wedding.
Some newlyweds also want to thank their guests with small but pleasant gifts – surprises.
In addition, gifts are needed for contests to be hosted by the host.
One of the options for such gifts are chocolates with your photographs or fridge magnets, which we will take with you on Love-story. I will also help you make magnets and chocolates.

Spark plugs . Before buying candles for a wedding, coordinate the use of an open fire with the restaurant where you will be hosting the wedding. Candles can be used during the ceremony of transferring the family hearth, during the farewell dance, and just on the tables.

Cake figurine . The wedding cake is traditionally decorated with a symbolic figurine in the shape of a groom and a bride, swans or something else. But it is also not necessary at all. Nowadays, many weddings, especially in rustic style, do without it.

Devices for cutting cake – of course, the restaurant will provide you with such devices, but if you want your own, in the style or color of the wedding, then you can think about their purchase and design.

  • Bridesmaid Dresses .It makes sense to dress your girlfriends in dresses if you have an off-site registration and have time to show off in these dresses and make a beautiful photo session with your girlfriends.
  • Insignia for guests and witnesses (ties, boutonnieres, bouquets, bracelets, etc.)

Wedding signs

What is considered bad and what is good on your wedding day? What should and shouldn’t be done? There are many different signs on this score.

• Failure awaits the bride if before the wedding she sees herself in the mirror in full wedding dress: the wedding may not take place.Therefore, it is customary not to put on some part of the toilet during fitting (for example, one glove). If the wedding attire is not complete, it is no longer a wedding attire.

• Unexpected rain on your wedding day – to wealth in a young family.

• No one should cross the road to the bride and groom, otherwise they will not live together.

• A bride’s heel is broken – it means that family life will be “lame”.

• If the groom stepped into a puddle in front of the bride’s house – she should live with a drunkard.

• If the groom stumbled on the threshold of the registry office, it means that he is not sure of his choice.

• Marry the parent’s wedding rings – repeat their family relationship.

• If you touch the rings of the bride and groom at a wedding, you will soon be walking at your wedding.

• If during the wedding, putting on the wedding ring, the groom or the bride drops it, then there will be treason.

• The bride and groom must not be photographed separately at the wedding, otherwise they will part.

• The bride and groom should always be close to each other and not allow anyone to stand between them, otherwise they will disperse.

• On the wedding day, a happy married friend should wear earrings for the bride so that the bride can have a good married life.

• If the bride’s wedding dress is torn at the wedding, the mother-in-law will be angry.

• If you get married in May, you will suffer all your life.

• If it snows or even a blizzard on the wedding day, the marriage will be successful.

• Who of the newlyweds steps forward on the rug in the registry office or in the church during the wedding, he will be the master of the family.

• If you take an unmarried woman (not married yet) as a witness, this will lead to a happy family life.

• The girl who caught the bridal bouquet will be the next to marry.

• If you pull the tablecloth off the table at a wedding, you will be married.

• If the bride pricks her finger during the wedding, it means that she will often quarrel with her husband.

• For a successful marriage, the bride must wear something old, something new, something rented, and something blue.

• If the wedding tablecloth is laid on the table for three years in a row on the wedding anniversary, then the young will live together until old age.

• The mother of the bride, at the moment when the wedding candles are lit, must say:
“God help me. God bless, let your candles shed tears. And only when these candles develop, only then will the husband and wife disperse. Truly. ”

• Husband and wife cannot wipe themselves with one towel – this is a fragile marriage.

• If, after the wedding, when leaving the church, a young wife ties a knot on a handkerchief and immediately unties it with the words: “As I can easily untie a knot, I will easily give birth in due time.Amen ”, no matter how many times she gives birth, all childbirth will be easy.

• During the wedding, when the crowns are on the head or over the head, the young should not look into each other’s eyes – there will be betrayals. They also do not look at the candles, but look at the priest.

• The bride must not insert wedding flowers into her hair without a veil and wreath.

• Do not wear a wedding ring on a glove at the wedding, as this is a 100% guarantee that the couple will not live together.

• You cannot be in a wedding dress with an open back.

• Do not put on a wedding dress, starting from the sleeves – you should first stick your head into the neckline of the dress (neckline).

• Do not rent or from friends wedding jewelry and accessories for wedding dress.

• Only the mother of the bride can remove her hair from the wedding dress.

• If the bride is not wearing a veil with a wreath, but a hat, the marriage usually falls apart.

• The bride must not have underwear that is not white.

• The bride is not dressed by a friend who has the same name as the bride.

• Do not pin flowers on your belt (childbirth will be difficult).

• You cannot have an odd number of buttons on a wedding dress (the husband will walk).

• The bride is not allowed to hem the wedding dress herself.

• Do not wear a wedding dress above the knee. The longer the wedding dress, the longer the married life.

• Do not allow anyone to measure a wedding dress – neither sisters, nor girlfriends.

• Do not wear lace-up wedding shoes.

• If the bride hides the spoon with which the groom ate on the wedding day and feeds him from this spoon (not literally) on the 3rd, 7th, 9th and 40th days after the wedding, and on the wedding anniversary, then he will be with her for the whole century.

• When the people to be married go to the crown, they lock the new lock with a key. After the wedding, this key is thrown by the groom’s father into one river (reservoir), and the bride’s father throws the castle into another river (reservoir). This is done in one day so that the marriage is eternal.

• Those who marry in a leap year are told before the crown: “I am crowning with a crown, not a leap end.”This is done so that the marriage does not break up.

• Those who are carrying a child in a leap year must not cut their hair before giving birth.

• Those who give birth in a leap year should take blood relatives as godfathers.

• The bread and salt with which the young people were greeted from the church should be removed so that, apart from the young and those closest in blood (mother, father), none of the guests would eat. Then the young will live peacefully.

• The wedding towel is not left in the church. Usually they try to beg from the young for the towel on which they got married, and wedding candles, since they have great power in healing.Everything should be kept at home. When young people have children, in the event of their illness, wedding candles and a towel can be cured (even serious ailments).

• The bride must persuade the groom to drink nothing at all except for one sip of champagne on the first wedding day. The bride hides the remains of this champagne and the next day pours it out onto the crossroads with the words: “As the groom did not finish, so the husband did not drink. Truly! ” Then the husband will not drink.

• Never store dried flowers in an album or vase as a keepsake of the wedding.

• You cannot sell a veil or help out your girlfriends by giving a wedding dress for a wedding. Your marriage will be unsuccessful.

• If your first-born suddenly gets very sick, you need to put on a wedding dress and, as it were, sit on the child, saying at the same time: “In what place she gave birth, he healed with such a place. Truly. ” It will definitely help.

• If the bed is made for the young, the bride should still beat the pillow with her own hands.

• You cannot invite an even number of guests to the wedding – this is bad.

• If someone throws salt at the bride’s shoes (first to the right, then to the left), the young woman will cry with her husband all her life.

• Svatyam is not occupied with salt – their children will not live, they will disperse.

• It is not customary to give forks, spoons and knives for weddings. Such a gift is considered a bad omen.

• They say that the bride’s wedding dress should be just a wedding dress, not a corset with a skirt, otherwise life will be separate.

• It is forbidden to wear pearls to the wedding – this is to the tears of the bride.

• You cannot wear jewelry at a wedding, but you need jewelry.

• Guests must not wear black to the wedding.

• Wedding rings should certainly be smooth (classic), not pretentious, with stones, notches – then the life of the newlyweds will be smooth.

• The bride’s wedding dress must be white.

• Do not wear rings on your hand on your wedding day, except for the wedding ring.

• If the witnesses at the wedding are divorced, this is a divorce of the couple getting married; if the witnesses are married – unfortunately too.

• If one witness is married to another, the marriage of the witnesses will break up.

• The last night before the wedding, the bride and groom must spend separately.

• Getting married on the 13th is a bad omen.

• You cannot sell a wedding dress. It must be preserved all life so that the marriage does not fall apart.

• When the groom picks up the bride from the parental home, he should never look back.

• The parents of the bride and groom must not be present at the registry office.

• Afternoon marriages are considered more successful.

• It’s a bad omen – to walk before going to the registry office.

• Do not give roses to weddings, especially red roses.

• Young people going to the registry office or to church to get married should stick a needle into their wedding dress or shirt so that the newlyweds are not jinxed during the wedding.

• To be happily married, the bride must cry on her wedding day.

• If the bride lost her glove or broke the mirror before the wedding – a bad omen.

• The bride should not allow her friend to stand in front of the mirror in front of her – she will lead the groom away. The same applies to the groom: you should not let your friend in front of you, otherwise whatever happens …

• If the bride sneezes on the eve of the wedding in the morning, it means that she will be happy in marriage.

• When parents bless the young couple, the bride and groom should stand together on the same rug (a towel specially embroidered for this ceremony) so that they live in harmony with relatives and among themselves.

• If there is a funeral on the way to the registry office of the wedding procession, you have to go the other way, otherwise you will cause trouble.

• If suddenly the bride’s left palm was combed during the wedding, it means that she will live richly, and if her right hand, the house will always be full of guests and fun.

• Newlyweds at the table must be seated on a fur coat turned upside down in order to live richly.

• If, returning from the registry office, the bride enters the house first, she will lead the family, if the groom, he will be the master.

• Young people should be circled around the table three times – for good luck. The table is a symbol of the house, therefore, circling three times around the table is an analogue of the action of the priest, who circles the young three times around the analogion.

• So that the young do not need bread and money, you need:
a) put a few grains (grains) in the shoes and a coin;
b) show young cereals of rice, millet, wheat grains when they leave the registry office or church.

• If jewelry fell from the bride during the wedding, it is a bad omen (the husband will spend the money earned on mending jewelry or buying new ones).

• If the bride spills something during the wedding feast, it means that her husband will be a drunkard.

• Unexpected rain on your wedding day – to wealth in a young family. The omen is valid in the countryside, where rain is a symbol of the harvest. And there will be a harvest – there will be prosperity.

• Father-in-law and mother-in-law welcome the young at home with bread and salt. Who of the young without the help of hands bites off a large piece, he will dominate the family.

• Leaving the church after the wedding, the bride and groom remain silent for as long as possible.It is believed that the one who keeps silent longer will be the main one in the family.

• During the wedding, the bride’s shoes are stolen and demanded for ransom. To hold the bride’s shoe in your hands is good luck, because if the girl does not remain in girls, then she is lucky.

• It is customary for the bride and groom to throw their old, worn-out shoes. This is done so that everything old, passed through, worn out remains for the young in the past. And so that you never remember how worn-out shoes are not remembered.

• When the bride leaves the church, someone from the household breaks a raw egg.This action is associated with the wishes of an easy birth and many children.

• The wedding wreath must not be thrown away. During the wedding, the wreath serves as a talisman, since earlier amulet plants (for example, basil) were woven into it. That is why you cannot throw away a wreath, just like you cannot throw out a talisman.

• If at a wedding you tie two bottles of champagne with a ribbon and leave them alone, the newlyweds will definitely celebrate their wedding anniversary and the birth of their first child.

• Try not to drop your wedding ring before it is on your finger.The dropped ring indicates that the circle – a symbol of your happy life – may not be eternal.

• When the bed is made for the newlyweds, the pillows are laid so that the cuts of the pillowcases touch (where the buttons are sewn), so that they live together.

• The weather on the wedding day was of particular importance. It was considered if “snow and rain on the wedding train is rich to live”, “rain on the young is happiness”, “a whirlwind of dust towards the train is not good”, “a red wedding day is to live red, but poor”, “a blizzard on wedding train is wealth. “

• After the bride left to get married, the floors in her house were washed (not the threshold). This was done so that the bride did not return to her parents.

• It was customary for young people to look in one mirror after the wedding – this should bring good luck.

• Keep the coins placed in the glasses for the bride and groom during the wedding at home under a tablecloth. There will always be plenty.

• If the bride loses her pin, she will lose her luck.

• In order not to quarrel in the future, a young wife, entering her husband’s house, breaks a plate.Then they step over the shards together. This tradition is probably rooted in the days when the bride broke the pot. If he broke, it means that the bride is chaste, but if not, then she did not save herself. There is another explanation: breaking the dishes means giving up your bachelor life.

• It is fortunate if the bells ring during the wedding. Bell ringing disperses evil forces, can remove the effect of witchcraft, since this is the voice of God. Science has already proven that bell ringing cleans the air.The ringing of bells is interpreted differently when the young are already leaving the church – this is a bad sign.

• Before the newlyweds enter the house, an unlocked padlock is placed under the threshold. As soon as they entered, the lock is locked with a key and thrown away. This is done so that young people live together in harmony, so that the marriage is successful.

• After the wedding, friends pull a rope in front of the church portal. Before the groom crosses him, he must pay a ransom and thereby be cleansed from his youthful sins.

• Your beloved must not knit any clothes (sweater, scarf, hat, etc.), otherwise he will go to another.

• At midnight, the bride takes off her veil, blindfolds her with a scarf and tries to put the veil on one of the unmarried girls dancing around her. The one she catches is about to get married. According to another custom, unmarried bridesmaids try to tear off a piece of the veil from the bride dancing with her eyes closed.

• Men at this time stand around the dancers, and if any girl breaks this circle, she will soon say goodbye to girlhood.

• When the groom has put the wedding ring on the bride, she must not pick up an empty ring box. Usually she is taken by the bride’s friend, who wants to get married as soon as possible, since there is a belief that the girl who takes the box from under the wedding rings will marry next.

Wedding omens, superstitions and other “it is necessary”

Our ancestors left us with a surplus of something, but will accept the superstitions associated with the wedding.One can only imagine how good it was before married couples who fulfilled several dozen of all the conventions “for luck”. We at YesYes are sure that it is not rituals that bring happiness to a husband and wife. But if you prefer to be careful, or want to reassure the older generation – catch the article on wedding signs. Just remember: do not read without a smile!

You’ve probably heard that you shouldn’t let anyone try on your wedding rings. And your shoes on the wedding day should be closed and without laces.You will also need to have four special things with you on your wedding day. Something new, something old, something alien and something blue. But this grandmother’s “it should be so” does not end there! And do not even try to figure out why it is necessary this way. Now we will list many traditional conventions for you, and if you wish, you can choose the most attractive for you and your beloved. Follow them and reassure yourself and your relatives: you are guaranteed many years of a happy marriage!

On the eve of the wedding

  • Even if the newlyweds have been living together for several years, they should spend the night before the wedding ceremony separately from each other.Often, the bride goes to be bored, or rather to sleep, to her parents. If she wants to stay in her apartment, the groom leaves.
  • If someone sneezes in the family of the future wife on the eve of the wedding day – to a strong and happy marriage.
  • In anticipation of a happy day, the bride is forbidden to knit things for her beloved. The sign says that such an occupation, albeit with the best intentions, will lead to the breaking of the marriage bond.
  • There is a superstition that just before the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom should not take joint photographs.
  • By the omen, we are waiting for the happiness of the young, at whose holiday there are an odd number of invitees. Guests’ outfits in black are strictly prohibited.
  • It is better to choose an unmarried girl as a bridesmaid, and the groom’s friend must be single, otherwise the marriage will be fragile.

On the wedding day

  • On the way from the entrance to the car, it is customary to shower newlyweds with millet, wheat, rice, small coins, sweets and rose petals. So that family life is rich, sweet, beautiful and prosperous.
  • Approaching the registry office, the car of the young people beeps loudly – this scares away and drives away all evil spirits, which means that peace and tranquility are promised in the family!
  • Rain and snow on your wedding day should be sincerely rejoicing, because they say the road to family life is clean. And the bride does not threaten to return to her parents with a broken heart.
  • When newlyweds go to the ceremony, it is important to be attentive. Not letting anyone cross your path is a sign of impending betrayal, not stumbling over the sills is a sign of quarrels and disagreements.
  • Breaking a loaf, the newlyweds take the top for themselves, and the rest of the bread should be eaten by the guests – to the financial well-being of the couple.
  • At a wedding, you need to blow out the candles strictly at the same time – in order to live happily ever after and die on the same day.
  • Having drunk champagne from wedding glasses, they should be smashed to smithereens for happiness. Moreover, according to the omen, the fragments can reveal to the young the secret of the sex of their unborn child: small fragments – to the daughter, large – to the son.
  • If, after painting, a husband and wife look together in a large mirror, their faces will radiate happiness for many years, people say.

Signs regarding a wedding dress

  • Wednesday is considered a good day for trying on and buying a dress and veil, and it is better to plan the choice of shoes on Friday.
  • According to the sign, the bride should choose one piece attire. To be at a wedding in a corset and a skirt is a separate life.
  • The bride’s underwear is snow-white, as a symbol of fidelity.
  • A bride should never show herself to her future spouse in a wedding dress until X.
  • Superstition also forbids the bride to look in the mirror in a completed wedding image. If you want to admire yourself – you need to take off any piece of clothing, and the easiest way is to put the bouquet aside. If you believe it, seeing herself in all her glory, the bride runs the risk of being left alone after the wedding.
  • If the dress is with buttons, their number should be an even number – to agreement between the spouses.But if there are no fasteners in the wedding dress at all, an easy childbirth awaits the young spouse, according to legend.
  • Pearl jewelry cannot be worn on a wedding day – to tears, our great-grandmothers used to say.
  • The groom needs to put a coin in his right shoe and let him go with it all the wedding day. Corn, of course, is provided for him, but, according to superstition, the spouses will have plenty of money!

At the banquet

  • At the wedding banquet, the newly made husband and wife should not just sit next to each other, but on a common bench.Our great-grandmothers believed that this is the guarantee of a long and friendly family life.
  • Having laid a pair of fur coats on a bench, with fur up, they believed that they were attracting wealth to a young family.
  • On the banquet table, be sure to put two bottles of champagne, tightly tied together with a beautiful ribbon. After the holiday, the bottles are taken home and stored. The first tradition requires drinking on the wedding anniversary, and the second on the birth of the first child.
  • During the banquet, young people should not leave drinks in glasses – they need to drink to the bottom.The sign says that the remnants of wine or champagne in the glasses of the young are to tears in the marriage life.
  • Cutting the wedding cake also needs to be done correctly. The bride cuts, the groom holds her hand with a knife. She puts the first piece to him, then he to her.
  • Husband and wife should only dance with each other at a wedding. An exception is the compulsory dance with the parents. Otherwise, there will be a lot of betrayal and deception in married life.
  • It is a good omen when a spouse already at the wedding begins to carry his beloved in his arms (taking it out of the parents’ house, from the registry office, bringing it into his house after the wedding banquet).Firstly, it promises the young family love and harmony in the home, and secondly, the beginning of a good habit!

And let only one of the guests come up with the idea of ​​presenting a set of knives and forks for a wedding to a couple – drive it immediately!

We in no way want to belittle the wisdom of past generations and the experience accumulated over the years. Remember, only what we ourselves believe in comes true! Unlimited happiness to your future family!

90,000 Things don’t go according to plan: 17 comedies about weddings – What to see

A wedding is a time-consuming thing to organize and never goes exactly according to plan.We’ve put together a bunch of films about weddings and the twists and turns that accompany them.

My ex’s wedding

Literally, Right Before Aaron, 2017

Adam, having a hard time breaking up with his girlfriend Allison, whom he met for many years, receives an invitation to her wedding with another. Only a year has passed since the separation, so Adam is still not ready to come to terms with the loss, he decides to upset the wedding at all costs and retrain from guest to groom.

Bitterly! in Mexico

Hasta que la boda nos separe, 2018

Mexican remake of the sensational Russian comedy “Bitter!” about how young people want to play the wedding of their dreams, and their parents yearn to respect traditions. Daniel and Maria, unable to convince the intractable father of the bride, decide to play two weddings at once: one romantic in the style of “The Little Mermaid”, and the second traditional – with relatives and a drunken party.

Happiness! Health!

2018

Three couples of varying degrees of love decide to get married, and for this you need to go through a severe test – to organize and survive the wedding ceremony and not quarrel. This is a comedy about the vicissitudes of Russian, Tatar and Armenian wedding rituals. The film was shot with the support of ivi online cinema.

Best friend’s wedding

Her Sey Seninle Güzel, 2018

Turkish remake of the 1997 American romantic comedy starring Julia Roberts.Here, as in the original, the lady learns that her best friend, a backup option in case she is unlucky in life with men, is going to get married. She decides by all means to prevent the wedding and marry a good guy to herself.

Eva Wilde’s Crazy Wedding

The Wilde Wedding, 2017

The famous retired actress is living for her own pleasure and is going to get married for the fifth time. Many guests come to the wedding, including the former, the very first husband.As is customary at such celebrations, a complete madhouse reigns around.

Holiday commotion

Le sens de la fête, 2017

This is the story of how a “discreetly luxurious” wedding was organized in an old mansion of the 18th century, and all the staff tried very hard not to mess up, but could not.

Groom for two

Jour J, 2017

One girl found her boyfriend’s business card with the contacts of the wedding organizer and decided that this was practically a proposal to seal the relationship with oaths and seals.The newly-minted groom did not think about anything like that, because the card was given to him by an accidental mistress. Now one of his girlfriend is organizing a wedding for another, and they have to communicate a lot.

My Big Greek Wedding 2

My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2, 2016

15 years after the release of the first film, the big Greek mess continues. Tula and Ian cannot find a secluded place in order to indulge in their personal lives away from inquisitive relatives.Their teenage daughter dreams of fleeing to another city because her relatives got her. And Tula’s parents find out that their marriage is invalid, and there is an excellent reason to bring everyone back to the wedding.

Best man for rent

The Wedding Ringer, 2015

Workaholic Doug is incredibly lucky – a beautiful girl agreed to marry him. The trouble is that he has no friends at all and there is no one to be the best man at the wedding.Therefore, he turns to a wedding agency, where he finds Timmy, who agrees to fill this role and may even find Doug a bunch of friends.

A little married

The Five-Year Engagement, 2012

The engagement of Tom and Violetta dragged on for five years, and they kept postponing and postponing the wedding, everything was planned and planned. Almost got divorced while everything was organized.

Frills

2010

The situation is awful – the groom got stuck in the provinces at a football match, because he accidentally became a hostage coach, the bride, surrounded by guests, is waiting for him, and the former rolls up and persuades her to leave the loser.

Bride War

Bride Wars, 2009

Since childhood, Liv and Emma have dreamed that their weddings will take place in the luxurious Plaza Hotel, so when it turns out that they have scheduled the ceremony for the same day, the friendship ends in an instant. A real war of brides begins.

Love you dude

I Love You, Man, 2009

A similar story happened with Peter Claven.But it ended quite differently than in the “Best man for rent.”

Mamma MIA!

Mamma Mia! 2008

The main heroine had a fun adolescence, gave birth to a pretty daughter, but she has no idea from whom. And my daughter took and, without hesitation for a long time, invited all three candidates for fathers to the wedding.

27 weddings

27 Dresses, 2008

Jane managed to marry 27 of her girlfriends, but she herself somehow does not work out.Then the sister suddenly announces her engagement to her beloved boss, and the girl realizes that it is time to act decisively and disrupt the wedding for the first time in her life.

Friend of the bride

Made of Honor, 2008

Once the girl Hannah went on a business trip for a month and a half and returned with her fiance – handsome, rich and positive from all sides. She offered the role of her bridesmaid to her best friend Tom, with whom she had been friends for ten years.Tom, as luck would have it, for the first time since their acquaintance realized that he did not love Hannah as a friend.

Wedding

1944

A bit of tar in a barrel of honey – a satirical comedy based on A.P. Chekhov’s vaudeville. The petty bourgeois Zhigalovs have a problem: no one wanted to marry their beloved daughter Dasha. The only groom was almost missed, but everything worked out, and you can play a wedding “with the general.”

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90,000 Wedding anniversaries

Wedding Anniversary and Anniversary Names


Green wedding

The wedding day is the Green Wedding – everything starts with it. The most popular gift on the wedding day is money, a jumbo flower in a pot – aka “Money flower”, or a beautiful ficus.

A green wedding is celebrated during the first year after the marriage was concluded every month on the date of the wedding.Usually, only flowers are given as a gift, especially paying attention to how long they will last. The symbol of this anniversary is myrtle leaves in a wedding wreath, which the bride weaves for herself on her wedding day.

Calico or gauze wedding

1 Year, 1 Wedding Anniversary – Calico Wedding

First anniversary of family life. The most difficult year is over, the newlyweds got to know each other better, overcame the most real family difficulties, faced the routine of family relationships.

A good gift for a chintz wedding is a beautiful set of bedding made of real cotton, chintz, silk, satin. Also, for a chintz wedding anniversary, you can give blankets, pillows, a bed to young spouses. By tradition, on the first wedding date, the wedding anniversary, it is customary to drink a bottle of champagne from the wedding day, hidden in advance.

Paper wedding

2 years, 2 wedding anniversary – Paper Wedding

Two years of marriage.The second year is a test of patience and tolerance in a young family. Very often, a baby appears in the family for the second anniversary, and it is very important to be kinder to each other in order to build a friendly and strong family. Paper is a symbol of fragility, so it depends only on the husband and wife whether they can maintain the fragile balance of marriage.

A good gift for a paper wedding is a chic, expensive embossed family photo album, an exclusive notebook, good books, tickets to a concert with a popular celebrity or a good performance.

Leather or Wheat wedding

3 years, 3 wedding anniversary – Leather Wedding

3 years of marriage. The family seems to be strong, but changes are still taking place in it, relationships continue to change like skin.

The best gift for a leather wedding is a high-quality men’s wallet made of real leather for the husband of the family and an exquisite leather wallet for the mistress of the house. Also, for a leather wedding anniversary, beautiful crystal products can be presented as an elegant gift with taste.

Linen or Wax wedding

4th year, 4th wedding anniversary – Linen Wedding

4 years together. Flickering lights should be an obligatory attribute on the festive table, and beautiful candles as a gift. As a test of marital relations, a twin candle is lit on Zhen’s anniversary, which should be in the room throughout the day. How many hours she will stand without extinguishing, so many happy years will the husband and wife spend together.

A great gift for a linen wedding anniversary is a beautiful tablecloth for a festive table.Or it can be a wonderful, warm blanket, an elegant bedding set, a chic bedspread, scented candles in fancifully curved candelabra. Household appliances such as a washing machine, microwave oven or food processor will be quite an appropriate gift for a linen wedding.

Wooden wedding

5 years, wedding anniversary – Wooden Wedding

Five years of marriage. The tree symbolizes the strength of family relations; it is no longer chintz, paper or even leather.On this day, guests bring to the spouses wooden dishes, spoons, boxes, small pieces of furniture. The spouse himself must make some kind of wooden craft for the house to prove that he has not forgotten how to work with his hands. And the wife, in turn, will cover this craft with varnish as a proof of her female compliance.

The best gift for the first wedding anniversary of a young family is beautiful and durable wooden furniture – a bed or a sofa, an armchair or a family table.

Cast iron wedding

6 years, 6 wedding anniversary – Cast Iron Wedding

6 years of marriage.Another crisis in marital relations. Cast iron, despite its external strength and weight, is a very brittle metal that can crack from any impact. The relations of the young, despite the considerable period of time, must be maintained, as well as the fire of the family hearth.

Guests can donate cast-iron pots, pans, and the wife must bake some family specialty in a cast-iron dish to prove her worth as a mistress of the house.


Zinc Wedding

6.5 years wedding date – Zinc Wedding

6, 5 years after marriage.This anniversary reminds that marriage, as well as galvanized crockery, must be polished over time. The crises are over, so home improvement is becoming the main task of the family.

Guests give the young sets of dishes, pots, some useful kitchen sets.


Copper Wedding

7 years, 7 wedding anniversary – Copper Wedding

7 years after the start of marriage. First noble and confident anniversary. And although copper is not such a strong metal, it is still noble.Spouses exchange copper rings or coins – a symbol of sonorous happiness, relatives and friends give copper dishes and jewelry. The presented rings are worn by the spouses throughout the entire anniversary year.

The best copper wedding anniversary gift is silverware, cutlery set. Also, on the date of the copper wedding, it will be good if the husband gives his wife one or more coins made of precious metals such as gold, silver or platinum, and the wife, in return, also gives her husband at least an iron dollar or euro.

Tin wedding

8 years, 8th wedding anniversary – Tin Wedding

8 years of marriage. The strength of the family increases over the years, so tin becomes a symbol – a strong but flexible structure.

On a non-anniversary tin wedding anniversary, you can make a big gesture and give the spouses money so that they can buy whatever they want. And you can get off with some household gifts for the household, for example, a set of scoop spoons, a set of pots, basins or other household tin without sharp corners.

Willow, Palm or Faience wedding

9th year, 9th wedding anniversary – Willow, Palm or Faience Wedding

9 years of marriage. Nobody argues about the strength of the family anymore. She is stronger than ever. Therefore, for the anniversary, earthenware cups are presented, which attract with their beauty. In addition, these cups are a symbol of a close-knit and friendly family (you can donate sets), which fills its family cup with prosperity.

A good gift for the 9th anniversary of a faience wedding is a porcelain service, any beautiful tableware.

Pink or Tin Wedding

10 years, round wedding anniversary – Pink or Tin Wedding

Decade of living together. On this day, the husband gives his wife a bouquet that reminds her of her wedding bouquet. In addition, gifts of scarlet roses are required, which speak of love that has already passed the test of ten years of family life and which is not afraid of thorns or obstacles in life.

On the anniversary of the pink wedding, the main gift is red and pink roses, a bouquet of 7 or more of which the husband must solemnly present to his beloved wife, and the invited guests who walked on the wedding day must dance in pairs and with roses in their hands.

Steel wedding

11 years, 11th wedding anniversary – Steel Wedding

11 years of marriage. The countdown of the new decade of family life shows that the relationship has become hardened, become stronger and stronger.

On a steel wedding anniversary, as the most popular and best gift, it is best to give exquisite jewelry, beds and chairs made of steel, iron, a car, a motorcycle.

Nickel wedding

12 Years, 12th Wedding Anniversary – Nickel Wedding

This anniversary is somewhat reminiscent of a zinc wedding, and the point of celebration is to renew the marital relationship in a reminder to maintain the brilliance of family relationships.Celebrated by a narrow family circle.

On the anniversary of a nickel wedding, it is customary to give anything – from fruits and flowers, to money in those quantities with which guests do not mind parting.

Silk wedding

12.5 years, wedding date – Silk Wedding

On a non-circular wedding date of a silk wedding, the most popular gift is beautiful, rich curtains, curtains or silk or satin dress for the mistress of the house or a shirt for the owner of the house.

Lace or Lily of the Valley wedding

13 years of marriage, 13th wedding anniversary – Lace Wedding

13 years of marriage.Life goes on as usual and weaves its lace. On this day, spouses are presented with lace napkins, tablecloths, openwork products knitted from fine wool. On this anniversary, you can give each other lilies of the valley, as light and tender as your love.

On the 13th wedding anniversary, it is customary to give spouses lace, lace clothes for children, a lace tablecloth or curtain, as well as embroidery, icons made of fabric.

Bone or Agate wedding

14 years of marriage, 14 years of marriage – Bone or Agate Wedding

14 years of marriage.Every year, relations acquire new colors, the family hearth acquires more and more new colors, like the agate stone itself, known for its various forms.

A good gift for the anniversary of agate, or as it is also called – bone, weddings – products from agate, ivory, statues, figurines, jewelry and original home luxury items.

Glass or Crystal wedding

15 years, 15th wedding anniversary – Glass Wedding

15 years of marriage.This anniversary is the personification of the purity and clarity of family relationships, the cloudless happiness of two loving people, which is so fragile that it can break at any moment. It is rather a jubilee of faith in oneself and in the family.

A glass wedding is already a solid period, it is already an anniversary wedding date for a period of 15 years, and therefore gifts for a glass wedding should be expensive, fragile and tasteful. For a glass wedding, it is permissible to give the spouses a watch, dishes, crystal, small but eye-catching souvenirs.

Turquoise wedding

18 Years, 18th Wedding Anniversary – Turquoise Wedding

18 years married. The brightness of turquoise symbolizes the end of all difficult and crisis situations that tormented families in their twenties.

Turquoise jewelry is presented on this anniversary.

Krypton wedding

19 Years, 19 Wedding Anniversary – Krypton Wedding

What to give for a krypton wedding? This is a difficult question, since 19 years is a long term of strong family relationships and you need to give something really good!

Krypton symbolizes light, so for such a wedding you can give a beautiful night light, a candlestick with candles or a lamp! Such a gift will bring prosperity and harmony to the family! You can buy sparklers and make a pleasant surprise for the perpetrators of the holiday – when they enter the room, light it up for everyone at the same time! A pleasant light will illuminate the room and fill the room with fun and happiness!

For a krypton wedding, you can donate a bedding set that will include beautiful capes and pillows! Choose only light and gentle colors!

You can give something practical – for example, a branded set of dishes or something from household appliances!

Porcelain wedding

20 years wedding anniversary – Porcelain Wedding

20 years of marriage.On the new family anniversary, the festive table is served with new porcelain crockery, which shows the increased (compared to a faience wedding) family wealth.

The best gift for a porcelain wedding is a beautiful porcelain, a china service, or just two porcelain cups for a husband and wife. On the anniversary of the 20th wedding day, it is customary for spouses to throw out old, broken or simply ugly dishes together, accepting new cutlery from guests as a gift. And on the festive table, the newest porcelain service is sure to flaunt.

Opal wedding

21 Years, 21st Wedding Anniversary – Opal Wedding

First of all, opal is a symbol of guarantee and loyalty. And our contemporaries believe that opals develop intuition and have a beneficial effect on the nervous system. It is precisely such a noble and pure strength that he carries in himself.

For a wife, a gift in the form of a fondyushnitsa or a chocolate fountain is suitable. Of course, if she is a lover of cooking. For a culinary husband, such gifts will also come in handy.For those who spend a lot of time on the road, a GPS navigator, a portable DVD player, or a player will do.

Bronze wedding

22 Years, 22nd Wedding Anniversary – Bronze Wedding

Bronze products have always been a sign of wealth and an attribute of luxury. Today humanity has a huge amount of newly invented materials, but bronze traditionally occupies its high position along with precious metals, as before, jewelry should be made of gold, cutlery made of silver, and sculptures, doorknobs, lamps and a number of interior accessories are kingdom of bronze.

Your gift can be either a small souvenir or a piece of furniture, a coffee table in the living room, for example. You can also decorate their interior with a mirror in a bronze “frame” or a bronze lamp, for example, a night light in the bedroom, which will create coziness in their intimate corner and remind them of a stormy youth and, possibly, awaken a dormant passion.

What else can you give to a married couple made of bronze? Of course, a medal! Yes, a bronze medal for such a solid period is the fairest gift.May they receive their first medal as a reward for this “Olympic game” called “marriage”. It will become an incentive for further “achievements” on the way to even more solid dates and more expensive medals.

Beryl wedding

23 Years, 23rd Wedding Anniversary – Beryl Wedding

Not much has been said about the Beryl wedding, but nevertheless, a beautiful custom has been preserved between the spouses to give each other beryl jewelry on this day, whether it be a bracelet or a ring, it does not matter, the main thing is to do it early in the morning, while all the household members are still sleeping.This is a kind of declaration of eternal love at dawn – a very beautiful and romantic tradition.

In addition to beryl products, it is customary to give “pair” gifts for the 23rd anniversary: ​​a pair of mittens of different sizes, statuettes with couples in love, or something single, but in duplicate, for example, two tea mugs. Such a gift will unite the spouses even more, and will always remind them of you.

Satin wedding

24 Years 24th Wedding Anniversary – Satin Wedding

When you have been together for twenty-four years, the little legs of your grandchildren are mincing around, you look back and clearly realize the happiness of the past years: maybe something in your life you want to change, change, predict, but one thing should remain unnamed – your half, which gave life to your children, and subsequently to grandchildren

The best gifts for the 24th anniversary of family life will be any accessories or household items made from satin: tablecloths, bedspreads, bed linen, satin scarves or gloves made from this silk fabric.

silver wedding

25th Wedding Anniversary – Silver Wedding

25th Anniversary. A quarter of a century lived together is already a lot! Silver as a noble metal is a symbol of a wonderful and lasting family union. It is customary to celebrate the Silver wedding together with all relatives and friends. The couple exchange silver rings and subsequently wear them along with wedding rings throughout the anniversary year.

The gift for the 25th anniversary of the wedding date should only be made of silver: let it be small, or let it be a school medal, or a silver fork, but the gift should only be made of silver.At the same time, on the anniversary of the silver wedding, the spouses put a silver ring on their finger next to the gold wedding ring.

Jade wedding

26 Years 26th Wedding Anniversary – Jade Wedding

From the day of the wedding, the union of two people develops, hardens, takes on its own, unlike other forms, every day it grows and grows stronger. When the 26th anniversary rolls around, the marriage becomes almost perfect, but not yet entirely predictable.
Usually by this time children grow up and mature, become independent, start their own families and parents again become “newlyweds”, they devote more time to each other, parting with children brings them closer together.

Since 26 years is not a round date, it is usually spent in a narrow family circle. As a gift, heroes of the occasion are usually given jewelry or souvenirs made of jade, because, among other things, this mineral is still considered a virtue stone, it has healing properties and brings good luck.

Mahogany wedding

27 Years, 27th Wedding Anniversary – Mahogany Wedding

Mahogany wedding is the name of the 27th anniversary of family life.Mahogany personifies nobility, strength, and it is highly valued. So 27 years of marriage are very expensive. The silver anniversary is already behind.

Expensive mahogany or mahogany veneered items are natural gifts for this wedding. These can be miniature figurines, such as netsuke, or small jewelry boxes with many boxes. Maybe even this will be a furniture set for the dining room, why not? Or maybe it will be an umbrella from a designer collection with a mahogany handle.

Velvet wedding

29 Years, 29th Wedding Anniversary – Velvet Wedding

The family ship of this beautiful couple has been sailing the endless sea of ​​life for 29 years. He is not afraid of either the endless expanses of the ocean, or strong storms. Even the ninth wave is not terrible! This ship docked in the Velvet Season Bay. This period is considered the most favorable for rest and good time. Indeed, the children have already grown up, graduated from institutes, and started families.And the spouses can devote more time to each other, travel and recreation, meetings with friends. And also invite them to your holiday. Having lived together for 29 years, they celebrate the Velvet Wedding.

Know: today you can put on velvet from head to toe. Velvet exists in different incarnations: for loving spouses, you can choose a long, straight velvet dress for a lady and a velvet shirt for a gentleman. Let, having tried on your gift, they feel all the power of attraction of loving hearts – velvet beckons and seduces … Affectionate, gentle, luxurious – it is impossible to resist.Do not forget to say that royal robes were sewn from this material! You can sew it too! And may this royal mantle remain with the newlyweds until the crown wedding, and will crown the seventieth anniversary of their life together!

Pearl wedding

30 years, wedding round anniversary date – Pearl Wedding

Thirty years of marriage. Pearls are the symbol of impeccable family relationships, as real pearls never tarnish. And 30 years are like 30 pearls, strung on the thread of time.On this day, the husband presents his wife with a pearl necklace. This gift is a kind of reminder of the tears that were shed by the wife during family troubles, the husband, as it were, asks for forgiveness for his unfortunate words and actions.

The best gift for a pearl wedding is pearls, a pearl necklace that guests can buy individually or stacked. Also, for a 30 year wedding anniversary, you can safely give any of the above gifts.

Dark wedding

31 Years, 31 Wedding Anniversary – Amber Wedding

The thirty-first anniversary is popularly referred to as the Dark Wedding.Why this date was named that way is anyone’s guess. For 31 years, all the lapping, hardening and tanning, wrinkles that reflect the places where smiles used to be – all this and other, amicably acquired over the years together, gives a certain swarthiness to the relationship. Young people look at you with interest, they still do not know the secret of your natural understanding and the even light of your love.

If the celebration of this anniversary happened in spring or summer, be sure to go to nature on this day! The smell of wildflowers, fire and barbecue will give the “newlyweds” their children, grandchildren and friends a good mood and the taste of a real holiday.Give one of the most responsible grandchildren a video camera so that he captures these moments for a long time. Then you and your loved ones will remember your 31st anniversary of family life for a long time.

Amber wedding

34 Years, 34th Wedding Anniversary – Amber Wedding

34 years. Amber is a magic stone, it must lie for several centuries to become what it is. So the family for this anniversary becomes a model. Almost perfect.

Jewelry made of amber can become gifts for the anniversary.

Linen, Linen or Coral wedding

35th Anniversary Wedding Anniversary – Linen or Coral Wedding

35 years of marriage. The symbol of this anniversary is a linen tablecloth, embodying peace, well-being and home comfort. This anniversary is the glorification of the mistress of the house, who managed to keep the warmth of the hearth all these years.

The most popular linen wedding anniversary gift is a classic bedding set, or clothes for children, or a carpet, or a blanket.

Aluminum wedding

37.5 years, wedding date – Aluminum Wedding

37 and a half years of marriage. This half-year anniversary testifies to strong marital happiness and the fact that such a strong family is ready to celebrate the holidays always and in a large and friendly company.

On an aluminum wedding anniversary, it is customary for spouses to give metal photo frames, cutlery.

Ruby wedding

40 years of wedding, anniversary wedding – Ruby Wedding

40 years of married life.Ruby is a symbol of fiery love. It is intended to remind spouses of the feelings that they experienced when they decided to become one family. In addition, this anniversary suggests that the intimacy of the spouses has become blood, since the color of the ruby ​​is so similar to blood. On this day, a ring with a ruby ​​from a loving husband will be a wonderful gift for a wife.

The optimal gift on the date of a round wedding anniversary is either a precious jewelry with a ruby, or a basket of pomegranates and oranges.Also a perfectly acceptable gift for a 40th wedding anniversary would be a thing for home decoration.

Sapphire wedding

45 years anniversary wedding – Sapphire Wedding

45 years of marriage. The symbol of this anniversary is the stone of fidelity – the sapphire. It is believed that this stone not only relieves heavy thoughts, but also refreshes the senses, gives strength to fight hardships and diseases. On this day, the spouses are presented with sapphire jewelry. In addition, this anniversary is celebrated with friends who have been with the spouses all these years.

On the anniversary of the sapphire wedding, it is customary for spouses to give any jewelry, but jewelry with a sapphire stone is preferable.

Lavender wedding

46 years old, 46th wedding anniversary – Lavender Wedding

46 years of marriage. Lavender is a mountain plant that can withstand even the most difficult natural disasters. The 46th anniversary has incredibly touching symbolism. Lavender symbolizes the longevity of relationships, kindness and tenderness between spouses.

Usually they give a bunch of lavender, whose delicate and strong scent will last for a very, very long time.

Cashmere or Woolen wedding

47 years, 47 wedding anniversary – Cashmere Wedding

47 years of marriage. Present the spouses with wool or cashmere clothes that are as cozy, warm and reliable as their love.

Amethyst wedding

48 Years, 48th Wedding Anniversary – Violet Wedding

48 Years of Marriage.A husband gives his wife a piece of amethyst as a sign of marital fidelity. This stone symbolizes honesty and clarity of intentions, which should have been finally determined after 48 years of living together.

Cedar wedding

49 years old, 49th wedding anniversary – Cedar Wedding

49 years of marriage. This tree is as durable, reliable and warm as your relationship. It is customary to give fans made of wood, as well as various carved boxes.

Golden wedding

50 years of a wedding, half a century, a round wedding anniversary – Golden Wedding

Fiftieth wedding anniversary.It falls to the elite to reach this anniversary, and therefore this anniversary is celebrated solemnly and pompously. They invite relatives and friends, necessarily children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends and colleagues. The main gift for a golden wedding is new wedding rings instead of those that were donated 50 years ago. After all, gold could wear out over the years, so old rings are passed on as a family value to unmarried grandchildren and great-grandchildren. On the day of the 50th wedding anniversary, you can arrange a second wedding ceremony.

The best, coolest and most win-win gift for a golden wedding anniversary is gold in any form and any concentration. It is quite permissible to give a woman on her golden wedding day chic decorative cosmetics containing real soft gold of the highest 999.99% purity.

Emerald Wedding

55 Years Wedding Anniversary – Emerald Wedding

55 Years of Marriage. May the brightness of feelings not be lost over the years! The bright green emerald stone should confirm that the spouses still harbor vivid emotions for each other.

A good gift for an emerald wedding – a lot of greenery, flowers, and even better – a trip around the world or at least a trip to Egypt or Prague.

Diamond or Diamond wedding

60 Years Wedding Anniversary – Diamond or Diamond Wedding

Sixtieth Anniversary. The diamond is a symbol of this anniversary, it is the hardest of all precious stones. It symbolizes the strength of the marriage union. On this day, children and grandchildren give the spouses jewelry with diamonds.

A good but expensive gift for a 60th wedding anniversary is diamonds and diamonds. But if there is no money for this luxury jewelry, then it is quite possible to give a happy family an iron, coffee grinder, blender, mixer or electric kettle.

Iron wedding

65 years anniversary wedding anniversary – Iron Wedding

65 years of marriage. This anniversary is a rather rare event, which testifies to the strength of family ties, that in such a time they have become as hard as iron.

On an iron anniversary wedding anniversary, you can pin up old people and give them a domestic car.

Stone wedding

67.5 years, wedding date – Stone Wedding

67, 5 years of marriage. The stone lives for a very long time, but it is also subject to destruction. But love, which has lived for so many years, cannot destroy anything.

If the spouses are not against such an extreme gift, then on the anniversary of the stone wedding, they can give them a piece of land in the cemetery and let them choose the design of the tombstones.And it is better, of course, not to injure an old husband and wife, but simply to arrange a merry holiday for them somewhere in a cafe or in the fresh air.

Platinum, Grateful or Blessed wedding

70 years anniversary wedding – Platinum or Auspicious Wedding

70 years of marriage. On this day, the whole family gathers together: with children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Looking back, the couple understand that such a faithful and long-lasting love is sent from heaven. And this is grace and true happiness.

On the jubilee anniversary of a platinum or blessed wedding, the best gift for old-timers-boarders would be contemplation of their entire family together, communication with grandchildren and children, and awareness of their own importance for children.

Crown wedding

75th Anniversary Wedding Anniversary – Crown Wedding

75 Years of Marriage. This anniversary crowns the long and happy life of two loving spouses. Celebrated by a wide range of relatives, children and grandchildren.

On the big and terribly long anniversary of the crown wedding, be sure to congratulate your husband and wife with warm words of sincere congratulations on so many happy years of family life, cheer up the old people, fulfill their any realistically feasible desire to the best of your ability and your capabilities.

Oak wedding

80 years anniversary wedding anniversary – Oak Wedding

80 years of marriage. Your family life is as strong as oak branches and as long as an oak tree lives.

On this day, the spouses are given an oak rosary.

Red wedding

100 years, the most round and rarest wedding anniversary – there is simply no more round anniversary and wedding anniversary: ​​Red Wedding.

Someone will say that so many – together for 100 years, do not live. And I will say that real miracles sometimes happen in life, if true Love soars at their source, which keeps two loving souls together for so long. The roundest 100-year anniversary red wedding anniversary in the world should be the coolest and most memorable anniversary in the life of a loving woman and man, husband and wife.

100th anniversary of your relationship. Of course, this anniversary is rare. Your family is glorified by the whole world! The name of the centenary was recently proposed by the long-living spouses Agayevs from Azerbaijan: 126-year-old Niftulla and his 116-year-old wife Balabeyim. They lived together for a century.

And how to do so, what gifts are appropriate and necessary to give to people who have lived together for 100 years – it’s up to you personally to decide.

90,000 “Before the wedding, go to the cemetery!” Wedding beliefs and traditions

Ransom of the bride.How much will you sell?

The wedding boom in the city usually occurs in the summer, and in the countryside in the fall. However, as it turns out, timelines are not the only difference between urban and rural weddings.

In many villages, weddings are still played “like a grandfather”, with matchmakers and ransoms. In this case, the village ransom takes place as follows: in the bride’s yard, the wedding procession is met by teenagers (relatives and neighbors of the bride), armed with brooms, sticks, buckets. They guard the closed gates so as not to let the groom to the bride without a ransom.The gates are opened only after the groom’s boyfriend gives the ransom. Then he goes to the house to “buy back” the table and the bride’s braid. The table is “sold” by the eldest bridegroom: she has been bargaining for a long time, although the amount is known in advance. The scythe is “sold” by a boy – a relative of the bride, he receives sweets and gingerbread. This is where the village ransom usually ends.

Sometimes the bride’s side dresses up the “dummy” bride and plants her outside the door with flowers. From such a bride, the groom must “pay off”. However, this custom is also observed by many townspeople.

In some villages of Chuvashia, the tradition has been preserved to meet the groom with bread and salt, a white blanket that is spread under his feet, and money that is thrown on the ground. The larger the bill, the more valuable the future spouse. The custom of buying a bride in the countryside is accompanied by ritual songs of older women. Friends are actively helping the groom: in order not to fork out once again, they climb over the gate, open simple village locks with master keys.

The modern urban ransom is not much like the village one.The arrival of the groom at the bride’s house is accompanied by loud car signals and, if possible, playing a musical instrument (button accordion, guitar). At the entrance, the wedding delegation is met by a witness and the bride’s friends. Two girlfriends use a satin ribbon to block the entrance to the staircase, and the witness holds in her hands a tray containing three boxes, one of which contains scissors. Each unsuccessful attempt to cut the ribbon costs the groom a certain amount, usually expressed in dollar terms.

After the groom passes the first wedding test, the witness tells about the second: “Ascending the stairs to the bride’s apartment, the groom must make promises on every step.” For example, such as giving flowers to the bride every Saturday. In some cases, the groom had to overcome 9 floors.

Note that the witnesses keep all the money received from the tests. “Navar” will be the more, the better the girlfriends show ingenuity and ingenuity.

Wedding with local flavor

The “wedding train” of the Tatar-Mishars always drives up to the bride’s house from the right side. By tradition, he is greeted with shots. In some villages, the custom has been preserved to put a small child on the bride’s lap so that the young have many children. According to one of the beliefs, it is better to put a little boy on your lap.

Coming out of the car, the Tatar bride scatters the change that the children pick up. The groom and the bride walk arm in arm to the groom’s house, sometimes the groom carries the bride in his arms to the house, the porch.At this time, they are showered with sweets, trifles, chigeldek (lump sugar).

In the Ulyanovsk region there is a tradition to put pins and needles in the hem of the bride’s dress with a “cross”. According to legend, they protect the bride from the evil eye. According to another sign, on the wedding day, the bride should not step on the threshold.

In Altai, before the very beginning of the wedding ceremony, the braids of the future wife are unraveled. This ceremony symbolizes the farewell to the girl’s life. The culmination of the Altai wedding is the bride pouring oil into the fire of the hearth.If she misses or the fire goes out for some reason, then this means that the spirits of the groom’s family do not want to accept the bride.

An interesting custom existed among the Tunka Buryats. The bride went to the wedding in men’s clothes, and a one-year-old boy was dressed up in her wedding suit, who accompanied the bride until the moment came to dress her in a wedding suit. In many places, the bride’s face was covered with a scarf or veil with slits for the eyes on the way. According to legends, in this way it was possible to circumvent evil spirits and save the bride from their hostile actions.

In the Kuban, one of the pre-wedding customs was a visit to the cemetery. The bride, if she did not have parents, went there on the eve of the wedding, sometimes on the wedding day or the day before, but in any case early in the morning or even at night. At the grave of her father or mother, she lamented, asked for their blessings, and the girlfriends who accompanied her on the way to the cemetery sang.

In recent years, on the Don more and more often they began to celebrate weddings in the Cossack traditions. Waiting for the appearance of the bride and groom, a Cossack patrol is set up in the village.A cannon volley notifies about the approach of the young – a signal that beckons the villagers to the Cossack circle, during which the fate of the future couple is decided. In the middle of the circle, the bride and groom recite the old Cossack formula of fidelity: “Be my wife” and “Be my husband.” With exclamations of “Love!” The Cossacks approve of the choice of the young, and the circle declares them to be spouses.

Chechens still have two main types of marriage: ordinary matchmaking and the so-called “bride kidnapping.”

Symbol of chastity

In Russia, the traditional dress of the bride was red.The color revolution was made by Catherine the Great – it was she who first put on a white dress, laying the foundation for a new tradition.

However, as one of the publications notes, the true symbol of the bride’s chastity is not a white dress, but a veil. The tradition of exchanging wedding rings was supposedly invented by the Egyptians. The round shape of the ring is a symbol of eternity, endless happiness and love between spouses.

Roman loaf at a Russian wedding

The wedding loaf came to Russia from Ancient Rome: at the beginning of the era, the Roman bride and groom were not recognized as spouses until they simultaneously ate a piece of wedding cake – far.The marriage itself was called confarreatio by the Romans.

In Russia, the tradition of the wedding loaf still exists today, albeit in a slightly modified version: somewhere the loaf is broken, and somewhere it is bitten off. Whoever broke off a larger piece will be the master of the house.

Clinking glasses and pots

Not a single modern wedding is complete today without breaking dishes. In the cities, the newlyweds break the first glass for good luck, and in the villages – an earthen pot. In Russia, a broken vessel was considered a proof of the bride’s chastity.And in general it was believed that the more fragments, the more happiness.

Rule of Five

For a marriage to be successful, the bride is believed to have to wear something old, something new, something blue and borrowed. The old, as a rule, meant a gift from the mother. Such a thing symbolizes peace and wisdom in marriage. The new is the girl’s new family. Blue – means love, modesty, loyalty. Well, it is best to borrow from a married woman who is happily married.It is believed that with such a little thing a blessing for a good family life is transmitted. Note that this “Russian tradition” came to us from England. True, in the English version, the bride must also put a coin in the shoe. To make money flow.

For your information

According to the Explanatory Dictionary of the Living Great Russian Language V. Dahl, the word wedding comes from “to bring, matchmaking”, means betrothal, marriage, marriage and marriage, marriage, with all the marriage ceremonies and feasts.

The word “mother-in-law” comes from the words “own blood”, and the word “daughter-in-law” – from the words “God knows who.”

The material was prepared by the Internet edition www.rian.ru based on information from RIA Novosti and other sources

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